i broke up with him b/c i saw him with his ex-gf and he was wearing her jacket. i ask him about it and he acts like it is not a problem. did i overreact or did i make the right decision in breaking up with him?
2007-02-21 01:52:36 · 13 answers · asked by amaris h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing. He sounds like a loser. And if he can fit into a girls then he has even more issues then you should deal with.
2007-02-21 01:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Drunk365 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say... How long have you been with him? If it's been more than a year, and this is the first time for something like this, perhaps you did overreact. If it's been less than a year, or you've suspected him of being unfaithful before, then no, you didn't overreact and you should just move on.
Love hurts, but you'll be a stonger person once all is said and done. Those we've allowed in our lives will have a direct effect upon how we treat others, grow in our lives and love. Take the positive and enjoy it, look back and smile, take the negative and learn from it... If you don't learn from it, you will continue to make the same mistakes in your life over and over again.
2007-02-21 02:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before breaking up with him, you should have talked about it first! Maybe theres an explanation... to what you saw. It is always better to talk out your problems in a relationship, so you'll know how your partner feels. If you didn't care too much for the guy, then it really doesn't matter. But if you have strong feelings... you should reconsider. You don't want the person you "Love" to not be in your life anymore... because of something silly. Talk it out with him!
Good Luck
2007-02-21 03:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay what the hell, she's called an ex girlfriend because they USED to go out. Unless an old bond is being reignited...I mean what did u see them doing together, and how were u all in the same place at the same time? If he acts like its no problem I bet its because it isn't and if u love him u wouldn't have broken up with him so abruptly without any further explainations, thats just illogical.
2007-02-21 01:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by DeViOusDaViD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love would not only flow away only via fact a wreck up happens. each so often issues do no longer artwork out, or that is no longer the excellent suited time. IF he remains hung up over his ex, then u shouldn't choose him to be with u. at instances, love only isn't adequate to overcome all. What he needed became area, and as quickly as he found out this, he permit u flow. yet that dosen't mean the affection will stick to on the instant. maybe u adult adult males gets returned mutually while each and all of the mess is out of his heart and he could be completely urs. it rather is the place the saying comes from, if u love somebody, permit 'em flow.
2016-11-24 21:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by donegan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you overreacted a little bit. You thought there was something going on even though there probably wasn't. How did he take it when you broke up with him? Was he really confused? Did you tell him why, and he became defensive about it? You really just need to talk to him about it, if you haven't. But if he seemed ok when you broke up with him, maybe you just need to move on.
2007-02-21 01:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hav blown it. if sum1 dumped me cause i was cold so i borrowed my ex's jacket (which i would. id hav sum sense and bring my own :P) i would h8 her 4 such a stupid thing.
wot typw of guy is he. a hard nut or a softy? if hes a hardnut. "abanodon ship!". if he a softy, say your sorry and u really wana get back 2gether, he will probily say no but the next day he would probily ask u out.
hope this helps
Tom
2007-02-21 02:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man i know how you feel my ex-bf was always hanging wit his ex-gf and i finally told him that i didnt like it and he didnt care at all. you did the right thing. CoNgRaTs On ThE gOoD dEcIsIoN.
2007-02-21 01:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bubblez707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its one thing seeing him with his ex its another a man wearing womens clothes! Sounds like you got just in time before your knickers started disappearing!
2007-02-21 02:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you did not over react. you acted on instinct and your first mind is usually right. I dont like for my boyfriends to be cool with ex's either.
2007-02-21 01:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋