We have been intimate for the last three "dates" but we have only went on 4 dates total so I am 3 out of 4 now lol
But I need him to slow down abit, just because i am really nervous getting into this . . .
What do i say to him, that wont make him think that I dont want this???
2007-02-21 01:48:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that you already know that you're physically attracted to each other and now you want to get to know him better- plan dates that are out in public- something fun.
2007-02-21 01:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cat is out of the bag already. But if you want to slow down, then I think you just need to say, "I like you a lot, and it's great what we've been doing. But, I feel like I need to slow down. I want to keep seeing you but we need to date witihout being intimate for a while."
2007-02-21 01:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex does not have to be part of every date. Suggest doing something where you are not in a situation where you will have sex. Go to a ball game, dinner and a movie or other events out of the house. Sex is not to be expected. Let him know how you feel. Tell him you want to get to know him better out of the bedroom.
2007-02-21 01:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frustration, anger, experience sorry approximately, paranoia. you're able to the two combat with one yet another too, lots. it rather is complicated and there are going to be extra instances than no longer, which you will could take concerns on your individual hands, in case you get my waft. Abstaining is perplexing, yet while that's what you are going to do, prepare for some chilly showers, wellness center interest and a few rather demanding nights. do exactly no longer permit it destroy your dating.
2016-11-24 21:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by donegan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you say he will see it as the "breakup" speech. Everytime you tell us to slow down you break up with us, or make us feel like youa re going to, so we go and have sex with someone else. Youcan try to slow it down, but if your relationship is over, don't say i didn't warn you! They best thing to do is go slow from the beginning!
2007-02-21 01:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have broke the dam how do you put the water back. You don't ,there is no answer that's not rejection so he won't take it well.Should of thought before you started. I think he will leave. Best of luck.
2007-02-21 01:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually slept with him? if so its hard to pull back cause you were too easy and he will wonder whats going on. If not slept with him tell him you want to move back a couple of paces
2007-02-21 01:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like there's little in common except for the physical exercise
he's not the one?
move on
n go see the doc
2007-02-21 01:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck. You slept with a total stranger.
2007-02-21 01:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Salami and Orange Juice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youve been out on 4 dates, you should be fairly comfortable talking to him so if i were you i would tell him how you feel and if he doesnt like it then hes not worth it
2007-02-21 01:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋