my sister died,what i can do with the paiiiiiiiiiin.?

Answer 1

Hi,
I got very sad to hear it .You know ,my sister also
died at the age of six . I loved her very much .I cried a lot .But I couldn't do anything . Just be patient enough to
stand it .
Mona
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Answer 2

Pain



Why is it a surprise
The pain in someone’s eyes
When a loved one dies

Why does nothing work
To take away the hurt
Or the pain when someone cries

Why can I see the fear
In each and every tear
Shed over the unknown

How does one show they care
Or how does someone share
These moments of despair

Will the answers ever be shown
Or are they meant to bare alone

My heart cries out
I want to shout
Please let me share the pain
But deep down I know
My feelings are in vain
And so hard to explain

Just know I’m there
Just know I care


Your pain flows freely
Through my heart


-aaw-

Answer 3

Hello,
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine the pain you're going through right now.
I am a helpline operator and I can guarantee you that you'll feel better after getting of the phone with one of us. They'll let you vent (which you probably need to do), and they'll give you resources for further help, too. In yahoo! search, just type: "helpline ____" <- (type your city where the blank is), and see what comes up for your area.
OR, you can just dial 1-866-HELP-210, and they can transfer you. Helplines are there for you 24 hours.
Hope this helps!

Answer 4

First, please accept my condolescences and prayers. Next, if your sister died of a specific cause you could volunteer to help others who are suffering from that illness (diabetes, cancer, depression). If she died of an accident, you could direct your sadness to something that she liked to do. You could volunteer your time to a children's hospital in your area and help others in need. You could volunteer at your local animal shelter. Anything you do in honor of your sister and in her name will help you to master the pain. The pain will always be with you, just not so overwhelming. Eventually when you think of your sister you will be able to smile and bring up memories without crying uncontrollably. My father died when I was 20 and had been paralyzed from the time I was 14. I was his primary caregiver because my mom had to work. I got married at 19 and I blamed myself that he died because I wasn't there to care for him anymore, but eventually I learned to remember all the good times we had and I now pass the cemetary where he is buried 2x a day and I sometimes wave and smile. I also take his favorite candy to my his grave - I know it sounds silly but anything that helps you to cope is okay. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 5

I'm so sorry to hear that. Words cannot heal your pain of losing someone so dear. Try to keep yourself more occupied with things. Read a book or try to go out for drink with friend. Try to open up to someone close to you preferably not your direct family member has they might not be able to console you. Try to be strong in front of your family so your dont bring them down. Anyway it will take sometime to get of the pain.

Answer 6

i know exactly how you feel! my dad died!!!!!!!!!!!1
at first i didn't except that!, but ignoring it made it worse! i lived with my dad and step mother, so when my dad died i had to come and stay with my mum in Ireland, at first i didn't want to talk but just cry! then i start talking to my mum about all the good things my dad use to do, then i was talking about the funny memories which made me laugh again!
but it will make you cry again but you will feel better afterwards!
now I'm in Australia and it has been 2 and 7 months since my dads death, and still every day i think of him and still talk about all the things he did and the things that still makes us smile today!
so, talk about it to mum, or friend, and cry as much as you feel, but remember one thing your sister is in your heart, and she is holding your hand right through

Answer 7

sorry to hear about your sis. i lost mine to cancer 2 yrs ago. i am 46 with 3 kids. they take up alot of my time so my pain was kind of channeled there.into the energy it took. if you're younger and don't have something as time consuming as kids it leaves you with alot ot time on your hands to think. it gets to the point where you can think you're going crazy. keep in mind that with time, the pain will disipate but,in the mean time find something to do that requires a bit of energy to accomplish. walking, exercise, something physical. its hard to concentrate at this time but if its something you think could help, try writing your feelings down on paper. write your sis a letter and tell her whats going on. it can help. alot. best of luck to you. you will feel better.

Answer 8

I'M VERY SORRY, I ASKED MY MOTHER HOW DID SHE GET OVER HER MOTHER DEATH. THIS IS WHAT SHE SAID TO ME YOU NEVER GET OVER IT BUT GOD GAVE HER WHAT SHE NEEDED TO HELP HER DEAL WITH THING AND EVERY DAY IT GOT A LITTLE EASIER FOR HER. SHE SAID IT WAS TIME, AND THEN SHE LOOK AT ME AND SAID WHEN SHE LEAVE THIS WORLD IT WILL BE VERY HARD ON ME, BUT TIME WILL HEAL ALL THINGS. ALL I CAN SAY LET GOD HELP YOU . THINK ABOUT IT IF SHE WAS IN PAIN AT ANY TIME SHE IS FREE FROM IT. THIS I BELIEVE GOD TAKE SOME OF HIS CHILDREN EARLY AND SHE IS AT PEACE AND THAT SHOULD GIVE YOU SOME COMFORT.

Answer 9

This is religious advice but God can help you with the pain. I know from personal experience. Give it all to Jesus. It's hard to do but He will take care of you.

Answer 10

To deal with it just think of her as on a vacation somewhere and not deceased but alive. She is in a better place .