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there is this girl that i really like but she is dating someone,we talk and everyone says that we flirt with eachother.what should i do???????

2007-02-21 01:34:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

20 answers

LEAVE HER ALONE UNTIL SHE GET SINGLE

2007-02-21 01:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all, there is nothing wrong with flirting with this girl. You said she's dating someone, but she isn't in a relationship so therefore she isn't taken. Girls frequently date multiple guys, just like guys often date multiple girls.

Now on to the good stuff. If she's dating another guy, you need to find another girl to date. She doesn't even really need to date you. She could just be a female friend. Go and find one as quickly as possible, and if you already have one, make sure she's available to see.

Do you know any of this girl's friends? If you don't, try to find a way to get to know them. If there are any problems whatsoever with this guy she's dating, she's highly likely to confide in one of these friends, and one of these friends could work in your favor.

Whatever you do, don't badmouth this guy she's seeing. She'll inevitably bring him up throughout her conversations with you, for a variety of reasons (to make you jealous, try to get you to make a move, or to signal that she's taken). When she does bring him up, don't try to scoot around the issue cause she'll notice it, and don't try to solve any of her dating problems either. Instead, let her confide in you and put yourself on his side instead of her's, you know, play devil's advocate. She'll find herself arguing against this guy, rather than you trying to convince her to leave him.

Throughout this process, make sure that she knows you're dating other girls (don't talk about it, show it). But don't lay it on too thick. She needs to know that you're still available to some degree. Throughout this process, you should be hanging out with her. No serious dates or anything. Maybe a shopping date or something, for instance you're going out later with someone and you need to pick up some shoes, invite her to go along.

Hope this helps.

2007-02-21 02:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Rob 1 · 0 0

$300

2016-05-24 02:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i am a girl in the same situation kind of. i have a boyfriend but this boy likes me and everyone says we flirt all the time. if i were you i would tell her how you feel and see what she says. good luck

2007-02-21 01:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by i got excitement in my life 2 · 0 0

Well if you'll talk and flirt alot, wait till they break up and be there for her. ANd if the bf finds out he might want to pay you a visit.

2007-02-21 01:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well definitely dont tell the person that shes going out with that you like her. just keep on liking her secretly and dont flirt with her too muchh or else you could get her by her bf. and maybe if someday they dont work out you could be there when shes sad and comfort her. [i think she'll like that]

2007-02-21 01:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by livelaughlove4 1 · 0 0

If she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you. If you really like her, wait until she's single. But, Do you really want a flirt for a girlfriend?

2007-02-21 01:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0 0

ask her if she really likes her bf or does she like you?
and if she says what kind of question is that, then she likes you! but if she says she likes her date then she is just mind teasing you.
be straight up, what do you have to lose? all she can do is turn you down and there is others that won't! so go for it, and tell her you like he!

2007-02-21 01:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by denise_evert17 2 · 0 0

i say dont flirt and dont try to take her out of her relationship if you and this girl are ment to be together then you will let her run her life let this girl expeience life and have fun!

2007-02-21 01:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by krissy m 1 · 0 0

Tell her you're gonna be somewhere at this time, and asks that she meet you there, if she doesn't forget about it, she's still into her bf, if she does, take it from there.

Besides, you don't want a girl that cheats.....trust me....

2007-02-21 01:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

depend if she is dating someone then you most likely need to not interfere, if she is unhappy with whomever she is dating then give it time and they will break up and then go from there

2007-02-21 01:39:06 · answer #11 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0 0

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