2007-02-21 01:25:27 · 10 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I still think that I am a fun loving person, I wouldn't say that I am a cold hearted *****, but I have had my fair share of cold hearted- ness in my life!!! I tend to be more withdrawn because of it.. some things in my life have made me become more rigid, and sometimes even angry at life.
2007-02-21 01:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life has a way of changing you , BUT as a general rule, I've learned things in life from the bad things. Really, it has made me a wiser person. Not bitter enough to label myself as a cold hearted b*tch, although I CAN be when provoked!! For the most part, thru it all, I have remained a fun loving trusting person, just more cautious.
2007-02-21 01:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel u on that one. I used to think that people in general wanted to be around other people who would be positive and treat them with the utmost respect. I'm sure u and everyone else that reads this knows that this is a bold face lie. Not many people want that. They expect u to somehow be some of those things occasionally but be completly contradictoy things in other situations. I basically said f#$@ it. Because I notice those types of things alot I use them to my advantage. I don't have faith in the idea of people wanting kindness so I give them some of what I've seen that they want in order to get what I want from them and when they don't have anything that i want, screw them. Nobodies ever finds out they think that I'm just a great guy. Yeah right, lol.
2007-02-21 01:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness and have confidence do no longer inevitably flow hand in hand occasion - i've got forgiven my husband for mendacity to me approximately financial concerns, greater advantageous than as quickly as, huge lies that affected my little ones. i seem on the great photograph, he's a sturdy father and dependable husband and thank you to that and different factors i've got forgiven him as he works on rebuilding have confidence. My have confidence has dwindled to easily approximately nil, yet little by utilising little he's working to repair it. in case you reside with this individual and don't forgive them it creates a adversarial ecosystem full of rigidity even nevertheless you'll be able to think of that is diffused besides the incontrovertible fact that that is sufficient to sell further rigidity. you do no longer could desire to verbally tell her you forgive her in case you do no longer experience delicate. perchance telling her something alongside the lines of " you know what you probably did eroded our relationship, i know you're sorry and that i will artwork on resolving my resentment in case you may provide me time to accomplish that".
2016-09-29 10:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.... but once time starts to pass and your wounds heal you can start being less angry and take responsibility for your own happiness.. there are plenty of great guys out there who will treat you right, but it's up to you to decide that's what you want.. then it will come to you
2007-02-21 01:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me...I'm a fun loving guy.
2007-02-21 01:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - I don't let life get me down. I still know how to enjoy myself.
2007-02-21 01:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No... always be happy inspite of life's problems, okay!
2007-02-21 01:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by In-Sync 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are who you allow yourself to become.
2007-02-21 01:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-21 01:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋