All this notion of wanting guys to see them as a person not a sex object, to see their mind not their body.
to not see them as a sex boject in any way.
Ok so then why so many wanting to know why guys dont ask them out or notice them, And gettign all upset when guys do see you are simply a friend or persoanlaity or person or brain.
And have no interest in dating you, kissing you being with you, wantitn gto make out and shag you or get married and have kids with you.?
you wonder whay guys dont ask you out or are shy?
can you blaim them they way you girls react when they do notice you?
you cant have it both ways
2007-02-21 01:19:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Maybe we want you to want to ask us to go out with because of your mind and not your boddy.
So you never want a boyfriend.. Only mates.
as if a guy is ONLy into your mind he sees you like another guy...
With no interest in yout body or a cuddle.
thats what you girls dont get.
Guys dont date simply somone mind they are firends with it
2007-02-21 02:21:20 · update #1
i agree
2007-02-21 01:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy friends except for when I'm around a catty woman and she's making a catty comment that men just never seem to get. I figure comments that bypass a man's ear only to be heard by the other female means that women have a highly trained ear much like a dog whistle to a B**** Ya got me on the second half done both. Great when it happens..sucks when it's over. Then if ya don't act it sucks to see him with someone else if you really like him. I'd say try it anyway?
2016-05-24 01:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you can have it both ways. If you have a girlfriend, the girl wants you to not only see her as someone to have sex with or fool around with, but also someone who that you really care enough about to listen to her problems. As for girls who only want to be friends, listen to that girl when she says it because usually, she means it. If a girl didn't tell you she wants to be friends, it means she probably wants more and its up to the guy to figure it out. Sorry about that. Us girls are a lot more complicated and guys usually learn that eventually.
2007-02-21 01:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
l think at times is the guys who desnt know how to read along the lines learn her moods,ya at times they want to be treated like a friend because some are good listeners so talk to them and stuff you know but when it comes to the freaky stuff let her make a move on you coz if you do first it might seem as if you have done smthing wrong yet both of you wanted the samething thats hw stupid at times ladies act
2007-02-21 01:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe we want you to want to ask us to go out with because of your mind and not your boddy.
2007-02-21 01:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry I would like to answer but it is taking too long to work out what the!!! you are on about.
2007-02-27 22:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are far too complicated to try and answer a question like that ! xx
2007-02-25 06:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Izzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! avoide them, they allways have to have it there way.
All the nice girls that are.. well ... nice are either
a) Fat!
b) Taken!
if they say they wana b friends. if you know she is nice. SHE MEANS IT. otherwise its a warning
--> "go away! i dnt like u. i have a boyfriend and when i say 'friends'. i mean sum1 i wont shout at and sum1 i dnt like. pay me and i will like u"
lol
Tom
2007-02-21 01:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They themselves see their male counter part as a tool to satisfy all their needs.
2007-02-21 01:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry couldnt get past the typos
2007-02-27 06:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by pilgrim_conrad_3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have issues!
2007-02-25 02:46:11 · answer #11 · answered by Dimples 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋