What can I do to get my mind off my ex? Even though she hurt me I still have feelings for her and no matter how hard I try I can't seem to let her go. Sometimes I feel like I'll be okay then all of a sudden I'm back to feeling miserable. I hate her coz of what she did to me but I still have feelings for her and I just can't figure out a way to get her out of my mind. Any advice?
2007-02-21 00:19:57 · 12 answers · asked by Confused as hell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This might sound like an old story but time heels. It will take long if she was your first girlfriend and you probably won't ever forget her, but you'll get over her in time.
2007-02-21 00:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Freddie C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't really going to help, but it really is normal for you to feel this way after a break-up. Try not to be alone so much; hang out with friends and family, keep yourself busy with work or school, do things that will keep you're mind off of her. You just need to give yourself time to heal.
2007-02-21 08:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by Undomestic Goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably felt very deeply about her before, and feelings don't just go away, so this is perfectly normal. However since you know that you don't want to get back with her (as much as you may want to) I would get involved in activities, not to find someone new, but to get busy and have fun.
2007-02-21 08:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man just give it sometime try to find another girl do other things that will help take your mind off her
2007-02-21 08:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok try to talk to her, even though she hurt you, your feeling havent gone to far away. try to become friends for now because maybe deep down you may think that you still want to be with her. so talk to her and try to become friends maybe she feels the same way then maybe in the future youll realized that you two would work out for the better. hope it goes well for you.
2007-02-21 08:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Stefanie-Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are in true LOVE brother ,.., thats why you are feeling like this... but all i have to say is this that time is the best heeler .. so just wait and listen try to spend your time more then before in other activities .,... anywhere in a class room.. in music class.. or with friends.. try to avoid sitting alone .. my best wishes are with U..
2007-02-21 08:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mr XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try forgiving her but do not get back together if u do the same thing may happen again and that might get her off your mind
2007-02-21 08:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't get over her by yourself, by reminding yourself of all the good reasons she is gone, and a few dates, then you should seek counseling.
2007-02-21 08:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with the guys find someone new!! somthing anything go to the gym go out see family anything to not think of her she hurt you you should not be thinking about her she should be thinking about you
2007-02-21 08:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and patience. Nothing else helps. Good luck:).
2007-02-21 11:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋