love marriage is batter than arrange marriage?

Answer 1

Probably not. If you have an arranged marriage you probably get some chickens and a cow along with your wife. You can always find someone to have an affair with if you don't like your wife... Chickens and cows, however, can be costly.

Answer 2

Not all the times,sometime you expect lot of things from your lover after marriage but you don't get those then you get upset and feel guilty why you got married when your desires not fulfil.
Same thing you feel in arrange marriage also than you feel that I should have gone for love marriage and I wish I would have fulfil my desires with my love at least?

Answer 3

Love marriage is better, but the love exhaust fast, and very soon u find there is no love in the marriage. Arranged marriages, the expectations of both parties are less, hence, many a times, it works better, for long term. We seem to forget marriage is a contract, and in many countries a legal contract. Just love and feelings are not sufficient, for long term.

Answer 4

Depends. In arranged marriage, the two parties don't expect the same things as from love marriages where if everything isn't perfect, and they begin bickering, they may break up and the marriage falls apart.

However, in arranged marriage, the two know what they are there for, and things go from there.

Answer 5

Many an arranged marriage can begin a good relationship that can grow into love and trust..
But a love marriage without any real thought to the future can grow sour and people fall 'out of love'.
I never heard of anyone falling "out of trust". That is ruled by your intelligence not your heart.

Answer 6

Yes! Love marriage is better than arranged only when parents settles a boy to their daughter with their opinion. With out knowing her ambitions, views settling a marriage is always worst.
When they gives importance to her daughter's heart, not to their possibilities arranged is also better. If a couple succeeded in their love marriage, they can achieve any thing in world.

Answer 7

it depends on the goals of the two people and how much importance they attach to tradition. as for me, even if i did want to get married, i could not possibly get married to someone after knowing them for just a few months, she would have to be my best friend long before i even considered marriage. this is not a business deal, this is a decision that i should make about what my life should be like. in general, as long as the two really truly love each other and know about the phases of love, i think a love marriage is better.

Answer 8

i think love marriage is better than arranged marriange but i am not critisiging arranged marriage becoz so many r living happily with that also . but now a days somany people r having different tastes and by loving each other they can know some thing abt each other , and they can be frindly throught out there life .with out knowing anything abt opposite person how can we marry and thus our country is having very value abt marriage . so if we marry once once it better to live with that person throught life . hope u hav understood my feelings .

Answer 9

of course, love marriage is better than arranged, as far as both have good understanding and financially sound. in any relationship, understanding, trust and sacrifice is must... without those, no relationship is good.... might be arranged marriage or love marriage... without these 3 qualities, it is like a building without foundation...

Answer 10

It's easier to fall out of love and divorce than it is to get out of an arranged marriage. Sure, that's not really a problem, divorcing, unless you have children who'll suddenly only see one of their parents every other weekend or twice a year. I'd say it depends on the people involved.