my bro has been in the army now for nearly 5 years,he met a girl about 3 years ago since then they had a baby girl that died,,and just recantly he found out she has started to see anouther bloke behind his back,her and this other man have only been seeing each other for about 5 monthes,and then she sent him a txt saying she has marreid him,,he was really cut up about this because at the back of his mind he was hopeing to get back together with her,anyway he then found out she was only marrying him to keep him in this country he also thinks ther was some money passed about too..now his head is totally messed up,,has anyone got any ideas (((((( all welcome))))))
2007-02-20 22:56:39 · 9 answers · asked by topeefree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bubble them to the authorities,there is too much of this going on
2007-02-21 01:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its like a typical answer but honestly I think the best thing he can do is forget about her and move on - he obviously deserves a lot better. Its sad about the baby and Im sure shes one of the reasons theres an emotional bond there on his behalf - the death of an infant is always very hard but really I think he should concenrate on meeting a woman that is worthy of him.
You sound like a good brother - so Im sure if you talk to him the way you have on here that he'll see sense.
Good luck
xx
2007-02-20 23:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there are lot of those things going around here in America. Marriage to stay in the cty. Anyways if he (bro) really loves this women when he is home or if he is home then he should have a talk with this lady. Find out if she still loves him and what in the world is she thinking..Then they can go from there. If her marriage is just for money and for the guy to stay here then she should be with your bro and just don't do another marriage paper with your bro b/c she's got one with this husband already if she has two can't go..anyways I hope your bro will be okay and have a chance to talk to this girl.
2007-02-20 23:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by It'sJust-Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very sad situation but your brother does need to move on with his life and forget this woman.
If he found out these details just through "the grapevine" then he can't be 100% sure that they are true, and even if they are, this is hassle that he doesn't need. If it was meant to be and this woman truly loved him, she would have stayed to work it out.
It is always tragic when a child is lost, and especially in these circumstances, but with your support, your brother will come through this a much stronger person.
2007-02-20 23:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by PrettyKitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest. It sounds like your brother is best out of it. Does he really want a girlfriend who will act like that? I don't know the people involved, but it does sound as if your brother would be better off without her.
2007-02-20 23:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by lollysarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with marry him . but let me tell you story of my friend . he got divorce last year 2013 . and she married with his brother . eventually her husband gone abroad . her feeling again back for her ex husband . and they start having sex . now she having both side fun . and both brother know this . and they want share her .
2016-03-29 05:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is girl friend might be grieving for there lost baby.She may have depression your friend should talk to her.I hope things work out for them both.
2007-02-20 23:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 forget about her and move on otherwise he will just end up feeling progessively worse
2007-02-20 23:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly what she does is nothing to do with you or your brother... just put it all down to experience and move on with your lives...
2007-02-20 23:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋