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Ok i have done lots of after school activitys and whenever i wish to do a new one i get a lecture

i have done
touch football wich they wanted me to do i did it for atleast 5 years and i got into gold coast representative 3 times i also did gymnastics for 6 years where i was in the elite squad and trained for 20 hours or so a week i have also done dancing singing and acting my hole life and still am doing it but it took me ages to get my parents to let me quite touch and gymnastics i have wanted to do soccer my hole life and i was'nt alaud because my parents said the boy's would crush me when ive always been faster than most people anyway im finally aloud to do it and they are lecturing me because i quite gold coast titans cheerleading, figure skating and feild hockey withing months this gets on my nerve's who is being insane me or my parents

2007-02-20 22:46:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

Plus i am year captain for academic and sport and arts so yes i do study plus i keep a social life and i am kind to my parents...........................when they are home since they work so much

2007-02-20 22:52:20 · update #1

Yeh i can see what you mean about to much stuff but i have spread it out i am 15 plus half the time they want me to do it or more cause im not aloud to be a 'couch patato' strangly i still feel like one lol and unfortunatlly i have a nack for sports and the arts and i love it

2007-02-20 22:55:53 · update #2

NO i cant show them these comments i will get introuble from them and i have already got introuble today i wish i could but i cant

2007-02-20 23:12:33 · update #3

Alright i have talked to them last night and my dad cam in after he was completly skeptical of everything and said that he was proud the way i discussed my point of veiw with maturity and you're comments helped so much i thankyou fromt he bottem of my heart i went to soccer training tonight and he said that he was really impressed with me im really excited i love it i no i will carry it out unfortunatlly they think it is a phase even though i got up at 4 in the mornign every single match for fifa world cup. thanks for all youre help you really made a diffrence to my life i will be sure to try to answer some to give back the joy oyu gave me

2007-02-21 22:45:44 · update #4

the coach was impressed not my dad sorry lol he didnt come cause it was just training he said maybe he might come to a game if he can so im extatic

2007-02-21 22:47:00 · update #5

8 answers

I think you parents should be proud. You're not out partying, getting into trouble. I think it's great for teenagers to stay busy. My nine yr old daughter plays soccer this is her second yr. She loves it. Ask them if they would rather you be running around with you're friends drinking, doing drugs and getting into trouble. Or better yet getting wrapped up with a boyfriend.

2007-02-21 04:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0 1

Mom & Dad, know best. But I'm a Parent. So I may be partial. They're scared that the Touching will go too far. Give them some Respect. They Love you. You're gonna need them, far more than you'll ever be able to understand. My three are all grown and gone. Ans they still call on me. Love your Folks! ` Cause they're showin' their Love for you!

2007-02-20 22:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0 0

WHOA! Slow down! You're making me DIZZY!!!

Maybe your parents just can't keep up!

Why don't you play for fun first without going to the expense of a league. Many of the older teams are kids that have been playing since they were in grade school. Find out if you like it and if you're good at it before jumping into one MORE thing...

HUGS!!! ; )

2007-02-20 22:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by HJ 4 · 0 0

Infact, why don't you talk to them? Ask them what they are exactly planning for you. Do they want you to do these just because they were unable to perform when they were of you are age?/because they know that by performing those you can show your abilities in full strenght. only then I tell who's right. do leave your comments I shall check them & let you know further if you wish so.

2007-02-20 23:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Winiart 2 · 0 0

let mi tell u.it is u hu is wrong because ur parents r worried that u can't be able to cope with ur studies.n even if u really hav a lot of talents or u r interested in something,u should consult ur parents first n see if they think it is good.
but anyway,u should not blame urself too.

2007-02-20 22:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by jasminecwx 1 · 0 0

Your parents. Show them what everyone had to say on here about them and maybe the will ease up on you. Your parents are pushing you way to hard and if they don't stop they will not want to reap the consequences.

2007-02-20 22:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 0 0

You are, why dont you make up your mind and stick to what you decide? Stability is probably what they are trying to teach you. With all that stuff going on when do you study!

2007-02-20 22:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

to me it sounds like they're kinda picking what your'e doing... it should be YOU... but if you have a history of bakking out of what you pick they might be hesitant

2007-02-20 22:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by mdlbldrmatt135 4 · 0 0

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