I get so emotional sometimes and cry alot - i dont like being like this and it really winds my bf - how can i deal with things better and not get so hurt?? and be a stronger person instead of this weaklin i seem to be becoming??
2007-02-20 21:57:03 · 13 answers · asked by baby_gal_lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore the 'this is how you are' crap. everyone can change their personalities if they want to. Before you emotions take over look at the bigger picture, look at the real consuquences of what you are getting upset about.. when you think through a situation should you really get upset?
Anyone can get upset about small things if that all they concentrate on, what are you goals in life what makes you happy? have you got any life affecting issues? focus on whats important.
2007-02-20 22:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask yourself " am I really weak"?, was you always this way or is there more to it?. Usually there are underlying reasons for tearfulness. It could be that the situation you are in at the moment is not a happy one. You could be unwell in some way. Take a good look at your life and everyone in it, find the reasons for your unhappiness and lack of fighting ability. There will be things in your life that you need to change before you can regain your bounce, WHAT ARE THEY??.
If your life is truly a bed of roses and you should be feeling on top of the world then visit your doctor for a check up . Get some blood tests done, the reason could be you are not in the best of health.
If you are in great shape and life is good then you will need to kick yourself up the backside, shake yourself up, give yourself a good talking to and get on with life.
However I do not think the latter is so. I think you have reasons to feel like this, be truthful with yourself, what are those reasons??.Good luck.!!
2007-02-20 22:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that when i was in early teens, but i never cried.
Boldness come with age.
As for dealing with things best thing is to Look into mirror every morning and talk to yourself
Say good things about urself (loud that you can hear em i dnt mean shout)
When talking or listening to others try not to be too excited and be Absorber
Just Always think You look ugly when you cry!
2007-02-20 22:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Unknown Entity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men get wound up easily esp by a crying woman cos they don't know what to do.
have u been like this for all of ur life, as far back as u can remember or did this just start happening recently? when faced with a situation, focus on finding a solution.
u can also pray cos i find that gives u inner strength and focus.
2007-02-20 22:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hillary is an extremely strong and intelligent woman. She would have to be to have survived the many obstacles she has had to face.She gets knocked down and bounces right back up again. She is planning to take on the most important and responsible position in the United States...that takes real guts !!!
2016-03-29 05:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...wipe the wet tears on your face
n clean it with this tissue ...
stop cryin stop cryin
why you makin it an issue..
dont get so emotional
damn you so sensitive
you can mail me
if you need a representitive
i'll make you smile n happy
when times you are low
jus remember i be your N.i.G.G.A
you can talk to on the phone ...
i cant explain
how to deal with the situation
if i dont know why you cryin
n what you facin
if you feel you can trust me
then drop me a letter
give you the guidelines
to make you feel better !!!
2007-02-20 22:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more ascertive which would give you more confidence. You could also be going through depression. Have a look in your Yellow Pages or Phone Book for classes.
Good luck.
2007-02-20 22:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by 2dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to think of everything as a lesson that is making you into the person you want to be....if you want to be a stronger person you have to push through things and come out on top...you can't let things that upset you control you that's what makes you weak....you have to rise above them and overcome them and then you will be where you wanna be
2007-02-20 22:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this may be how you are. The best way to get over it is to try and look at each situation from a different perspective. Try not to take everything to heart....
2007-02-20 22:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not help the way you are,yes life is always harder if you are more sensitive(NOT A WEAKLING). Stop being so hard on yourself and surround yourself with like thinking like feeling people.
2007-02-20 22:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋