Me and my bf had a really big fall out and i finished things because i was mad - but i never meant it and now he doesnt want to know me or sort things out :( i love him with all my heart still and wanna sort things out ... what can i do to get my guy back?
2007-02-20 21:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by baby_gal_lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all your response to helping me get my man back but things still aint goin well - hes bein more friendly now but still not showing any signs of wanting to get back together :(
2007-02-22 01:01:30 · update #1
Yip, we all do things we regret. If he really and truly does not want to take you back, then maybe he was just waiting for this opportunity in the first place. Anyway, let him blow off some steam first then chat to him about it. Don't approach him while he's still on fire. Good Luck
2007-02-20 22:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always say the wrong things when we're angry.
Try and leave it a bit (maybe a week?) because he may be still angry, then talk to him in a mature way. Go into the convo by asking how he is, how his day was etc. Then apologise. You have to convince him that you would not just keep ending the relationship everytime you both get into an argument.
2007-02-21 05:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think really really hard about why you would even consider being with someone who "doesn't want to know you."
Work on yourself....make a list about all of the precious and valuable things about yourself and your personality....
and then just *THINK* about why you would want to be with a guy who does not value or treasure those things?
Also make a list of everything that is *not right* with him. Take it out and look at it often.
This is a good exercise for anyone who is being swayed by false emotion rather than reason.
All the best to you.
2007-02-21 06:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy. Just tell him your really sorry and treat him to a nice evening out or a meal. Then really say sorry by showing him in the bedroom, if you know what I mean! No seriously, just sincerely apologise and make up. If you love him as you say you do then that shouldnt be too hard..
2007-02-21 06:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by jaz r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry things are bad at the moment but i think your boyfriend is obviously still angry with you for finishing with him although it was through anger at the heat of the moment, write to him explaining how you feel or if you feel strong enough phone him , personally i wouldn't bother texting him as its not very personal, at least if you write to him he will have to sit down and read it and you will be able to express yourself better instead of feeling awkward.
2007-02-21 06:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by karen333342 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by talking to him, expalin your feelings listen to his? With out knowing the circumstances of your argument, I am guessing he could be really hurt and let down by the fact you ended things so easily. Explain we all do and say silly things in temper, but also next time dont be so rash to end things!!!!
2007-02-21 07:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In simple words say
SORRY
and say you mean it
IF he loves you he wont stay angry for long
And if he still doesnt Then dont say anything till he gets back to you.
2007-02-21 09:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Unknown Entity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a look at what you was mad at,and be true to yourself,and dont allow unaceptable behaviour back into your life.
you will discover there is better out there for you
2007-02-21 06:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u he has 2 understand u.... try 2 talk 2 him n explane what's happenin... if u love him, u should try hard...
good luck
2007-02-21 06:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by rrru888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with calling him take it from there
2007-02-21 05:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋