Would you beat her up? Tell her to back off? What would you do?
If this is one of your friends this is happening to, what can you do to help them?
2007-02-20 21:30:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If my bf dont give a damn with her i wont care in fact i would be proud that some girls are so inlove with my man and he is so mine... But if she keep on bothering my bf and knew my bf doesnt really like her then i'll kick her ***.
But if my bf happened to cheat me with her then i'll kick them both. Have a good day!!!
2007-02-20 21:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by chill25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,I definately would want to beat the other woman up...BUT she ISN'T worth going to jail for! Therefore I would confront her and tell her to "BACK OFF". My question is HOW DID THIS HAPPEN, is the man cheating or encouraging this to happen??? If so...DUMP HIS AZZ!!!! If he is not interested in this "other woman" and truly loves "his woman", then he's obligated to put a stop to it!!! This is my thoughts/feelings on what a true friend is: Always there to "LISTEN" and NOT "judge"! Comfort and assure them that it's not their fault. A true friend will always open their heart, give support, and let their friend know that they are always there for them. You can offer suggestions on what YOU would do, but your friend HAS TO DO what they feel is right,,,they are the one that has to live with their decision and it's repercussions. You have already taken the first step in helping your friend by asking for other's opinions. Sending many well wishes to you and your friend!!!
2007-02-20 22:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being her best friend and everything... she needs to know that her man loves her. This is the test. If this other woman goes after her man and he takes the bait then he's obviously not worth her time, not to mention time wasted away when she could be with the RIGHT one. Tell your friend she needs to advise her man of the other woman's intentions and see what he says. Watch carefully and she will have her answer. If it's bad, do what best friends do... have her back. Good luck!
2007-02-20 21:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to back off. there's no harm in having those FEELINGS, but any efforts on her part to try and initiate any type of relationship with him is wrong and unacceptable. Don't beat her up--that's not cool. and it's really on the boyfriend to stay faithful and keep away from her.
2007-02-20 21:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person knows that you are the main squeeze of this man, then I think you should act upon, if this person is a stranger, well set the facts straight, if this person messes with whats dear to you....and HE acts upon it....dump him, he is weak then and doesn't know his priorities and he will always stray.....sooner or later!
2007-02-20 21:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by CC Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are sure gonna want to punch her a couple times but be the bigger person and trust your man....you will gain so much more respect from him and other people if you don't trip about it....just tell her you understand why she loves him he's a wonderful guy but if he wanted to be with her he would be and he's not so she needs to move on....if you show him that you trust him he will love it....if you really can't trust him it will definately show after this...you know us women always catch em messin up they aren't as sneaky as they think they are...;)
2007-02-20 21:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her to back off. If she is a friend she shouldnt fall in love with your man anyway
2007-02-20 21:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica Rabbit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im answering based on my experience...coz my bf has a face value...:) so my friends ( or so i think they were ) always flirted w/ him. to the point of even texting him w/ a diff. name...it's so hard to act cool but i did...i talk w/ my bf and ask him if he likes any of my friends, when he said no, i told him to stay away w/ them and never befriend them..that way my friends will know that my bf is faithful w/ me...and it worked..
2007-02-20 21:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by hersheila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would admire her good taste. If my man did something about it, however, that would be different. Serious words with both, at least.
2007-02-20 21:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bare knuckle fighting would ensue.
2007-02-21 04:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋