She is my best friend then we love each other alot when i gratuated from secondary school she was in 11th calss then next year she also gratuated and day by day we love each other alot then i talked at home with mom and father they all agree with me then they got her for me and we engaged now people saying that after wedding there will be not that much love that now what we have through this comments that i mentioned here is it true / wrong. if true why explain me if wrong also explain me what is the reason
2007-02-20 21:23:07 · 3 answers · asked by Ali Khan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you just have to keep the love alive. when you get into arguments, argue fairly and do new things together all the time that you both enjoy doing...studies have shown that this helps love feel new again.
2007-02-20 21:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marrige alwasy leads to complications, but in all relation ships its complications, no relationships are perfect. Its true that many begin to fight after marrige, think its the promise of ever loving eachother, because no one can give sucha strong promise, LOVE is a strong word. and if you really love her and she love you, things will be fine between you, just dont keep seacrets for eachother, have a night or two in the week where its only you and your gf, no tv, no computer nothing. I am married with the most gorgous girl in the world, been married for 16 years now and everything is ok between us. just let the time be the right, we where engaged for 4 years, because no one of us where ready to get married yet. have a long talk with your gf about when to marry etc. just dont plan the hole life, lets things just happend. dont pick on your gf "I wana be a dad now, lets make kids", dont let her do that on you either, to get a child is a miracle, nothing you can plan way before it happens.
But yeah its true that some off the love maybe disapare, but if its the right girl for you, dont let the marrige stop you loving her deeply.
good luck to you and your gf mate!
2007-02-21 05:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by mr.spooky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will lay down, some simple priorities, from what I, as an individual man, have observed in life:
Priority 1. Oxygen.
Priority 2. MONEY earned by fair means (do NOT underestimate this commodity! For heaven's sake...)
Priority 3. Romance.
2007-02-21 05:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋