Ok I was with this guy for alittle over and yr and things seemed great! This is really complicating because there is so much going on. 1st he started living with me because his parents were crazy haha and so we took him in as a foster child and then the courts found his real mom and so then he decided he wanted to live with her so he left me to do so.. um when he 1st went out there he was fine with calling me and talking to me but now he has a new gf and dont want to come back. I feel like im dying i have a depression problem now and all this bad stuff and i dont want to live like this no more but idk what to do! He just basically changed after his real mom came in2 the picture and now dont care about anybody but himself which is so not him and i know i cant change him or anythin (altho i wish i could) i just want to have a happy new life as he does! Can anybody help hes been gone for 31days now and i cant stop thinking about him.
2007-02-20 21:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by Kaia.R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was young I had a similar thing happen to me. My bf ended up finding someone else at the time and just up and leaving me with no explanation after 3 years of living with me.
I know it's hard but trust me it's his loss not yours. He may be happy today but what about tomorrow? My advice to you would be to get rid of anything that reminds you of him, pictures, cards, etc, and toss them in the trash. He IS your past. It's time to get on with the future. Indulge in anything that can take your mind off him. Go out with friends! You WILL find someone ELSE that treats YOU as you should be treated. Daydream on that.... :) Best wishes and cheer up hon, your life's just started! Don't let it end with him. BE STRONG!
2007-02-20 21:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After all you have done for him... Well, you may never understand what he is thinking, but you have a choice. Let it control your life or you be the one to take control of it! If I was in his situation, I would feel like I have regained a little of myself since meeting my mom, almost like a different person. Its a life changing experience to discover where you have come from. You have supported him as much as you can and he is moving on now. It could have been the opposite but it wasn't. He has walked in to his new life, as hard as every step will be for you, try taking the same journey. Who knows what awaits you around the corner, that is the way of life! You are a good person, bless others with your kindness...
2007-02-20 21:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by missdre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can mend a broken heart. You will know when you meet the right person to move on with. It takes longer than a month to get over someone that you were that close to. It may help to cut off all contact with him, so that your heart can slowly open up to someone new.
2007-02-20 21:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find way to keep in touch with him.
Understand that he was longing for his Mom and understand the changes.
Well, don't kill yourself just because you're thinking that he will be out of you life, try to live instead and make your best while you're living to get him!
Go and get him! Why not?
2007-02-20 21:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by guRl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you really care about him....which means you must know how happy it makes him to be back with his biological mother....i know it hurts that your situation has changed and you feel like he's not a part of your life...that part will always hurt but just remember that he may be truly happy right now so if you really care about him that should make you happy too....if the two of you are ment to be it will happen but just be happy for him and try to be there when he needs you...he will notice and appreciate it i promise!
2007-02-20 21:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it....get on with your life girlfriend....don't ever chase a guy....if you got the goods, they'll come a knockin.....if he doesn't want to be with you, there's nothin you can do about it...obviously he doesn't.....go to church and find yourself a real man....this may sound corny, but there are probably a lot of guys out there willing to go out with you, but if you are home sulking, how the heck are they supposed to find you......been there done that...suck it up and MOVE ON..no body is worth this much suffering over.....it wasn't meant to be.....
2007-02-20 21:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by 2011 Recruiting Class 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please get over him...he is not worth it..why do you want to be with a man who does not want to be with you. Find yourself a nice guy (there are plenty out there) take a bath, buy yourself something nice, pray and show him that you can do better without him!
2007-02-20 21:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by gfunky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its Time 4 a Change babe
2007-02-20 21:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by SRA Qady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep ur self busy doing ur hobbies or any other creative work.becoz life moves on and it never stops 4 any body.spent time with ur friends and ake new friends who really care u
2007-02-20 21:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dance my way via the hardships... Powered of coarse, if the wind dies down i desire to maintain shifting, and as reliable as my lungs are I doubt i ought to blow the sails besides as i will draw on my bong......
2016-10-16 04:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋