Was in a 8 yr realtionship, broke up 5 months ago and I've ben seeing a guy for 2 months..nice guy, funny, great sex- but the spark is not there!1
He is really keen and calls me his girlfriend,Ive met the parents etc, I enjoy being with him, I'm just worried of wasting my time if his not the guy for me..I did that for 8 years previously..should I stay with him and just enjoy or dump him...
2007-02-20 21:05:52 · 13 answers · asked by money bank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing ventured, nothing gained my dear....
enjoy your time
2007-02-20 21:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 years is a long time, and 5 months isn't a long time to get over that.
About a week ago I split up with my long term girlfriend and I feel pretty much like the spark has gone out of everything I do. Even things that I used to enjoy don't seem as much fun. It's the same when I think about other women. Maybe you're in the same boat?
Anyway, think carefully and weigh up all the options before you do anything. Good luck!
2007-02-21 07:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by zoot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO just give him a chance ( on your terms ), if you give him up, without giving him a chance, you may never know if he could of been good for you, just tell him you dont want to get to serious just yet, just have fun, and see how things go,you said you enjoy being with him, .... if you meet the another guy and the guy after that, you will be thinking the same, everyone and everything deserves a chance.
2007-02-21 05:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by nicky2425 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play it by ear while you are both getting enjoyment then fine, it is when things become a chore you want out. But also be honest with him about how you feel, that way you both know where you stand.
Sometimes the Grass always looks greener on the otherside! If you are honest about way you feel, then you have done your bit it is then up to him if he happy with that or not.
Good Luck
2007-02-21 08:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know if you dont try
Dont judge a realtionship in the begining
Each and everyone deserves a chance not matter what even a relationship needs a chance
2007-02-21 05:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wows, 8 year relationship? thats super long.. wells, i think you should listen to what your heart says, whether you want to stay with him or dump him.. but i feel that its better to be in a relationship that is lasting and you are sure you want to spend the rest of your life with him..
2007-02-21 07:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by mystic world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the spark isn't there from the start and sometimes it is and the relationship goes bad. if you enjoying being with him just see how it goes. you don't have any thing to loose.
2007-02-21 05:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by sarah xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with him cos u enjoy being with him. the right person for u is someone who loves u and u return the feeling. he will never knowingly hurt u.
2007-02-21 06:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel like this because it hasnt been that long since your other relationship,so its not going to work i think you should be on your own for a while,he might be a nice guy but not the one for you.good luck.
2007-02-21 05:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jaz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know his more of a mr right now than mr right.
If your having your doubts then end it, I know if i were him, I'd rather that the person i was with was with me because they loved me not because there was no one else interested in her at the time.
2007-02-21 05:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Vix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2months is not long. It takes time to fall in love with someone is all I will say.
Good luck
2007-02-21 05:12:19 · answer #11 · answered by wragster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋