I got a few girls pregnant back in the day but I had moved to different places as I am in the Navy. Girls never been able to contact me and I don't have the maturity to have any kids at this stage in my life. Just wondering if their are other dudes who do this.
2007-02-20 20:57:32 · 13 answers · asked by Jesus 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
That is really not something to be "bragging" about. Especially in a forum where the majority of the people on here are PREGNANT WOMEN! Men are sort of out numbered here...so be prepared to receive MANY replies from pissed pregnant women.
2007-02-20 21:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dani 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jen, you have many dilemmas and your pain cuts right through your life. The issue at hand is how you’re treating the situation, you’ve been dwelling in the past for far too long, how can you have a future when you keep living in the past? You’re past is your future at the moment and every second you keep thinking about the situations of the past the more it will cause you agony. Now that you know this you can take action and figure out the necessary measures to take, the communication between you and your husband is flawed because you’re still extremely hurt by what he did which means you still have some issues you both need to fix together. I don’t appreciate the fact that he did what he did and that he hid it, imagine if you hadn’t gotten the information out of him? I don’t think it’s fair the way he treats you. If you live near a park or somewhere that’s covered my natural nature (none of that manmade stuff) take a walk by yourself and think about things but think towards progress not towards misery. What you’re looking for is emotional closure concerning this matter and you won’t be able to get it until you deal with every little derivative of this problem. There are a lot of trust issues here and I don’t blame you for it and I think you’re a very strong person for what you’re going through and when you move past this experience you will be even stronger and very liberated. Concerning your love for him, don’t use love to make decisions, love doesn’t work very well when it comes to decision making. A great number of people stay in abusive or bad relationships because of this thing called “love”. He keeps constantly hurting you and I don’t think that’s love. You really need to be logical here, do you want to continue being hurt or do you want to fix things, you have big decisions to make. Love can make people very passive to very bad situations. Concerning your heart, I think it’s been shattered so bad my your husbands actions that when your around his it’s like he’s stepping on it over and over trying to turn your heart into powder. You do deserve better and when I say better I mean his actions and how he behaves needs to change 360 degrees or else you need to provide him with the ultimatum. My last words, happiness is derived from within you, no external thing can make you truly happy, those are fleeting ideas, you can only have true happiness from within yourself, that is true happiness and nothing can take that away. I hope this helps Send me an email if you need more advice or help Tony Cupcakes PS: One lie ruins a thousand truths. Ghanaian proverb
2016-03-29 05:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a woman can't walk away, can she? And yes, unfrotunately there are many dudes out there, just like you.
I can understand one mistake (but even then, I would expect you to take on the responsibility) but why a "few" girls?
I'm so sad when I read your question. What a waste of life. Why don't you just buy a packet of condoms and save so much destruction?
2007-02-20 23:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's just hope that these women do not contact the Navy! Because if you indeed get these women pregnant and they claim your the father and you are proven to be it, the Navy will MAKE sure that you pay child support. Have fun...
2007-02-21 00:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hopefully one or more of your kids will become very rich and famous, look after there mother in extreme luxury and leave you to spend your days reminiscing of what might have been.
One thought? If you move on, lose touch etc, how do you know that "you" got the pregnant? You might be firing blanks dude!
2007-02-20 21:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
a man in our start is being sued by his 2 adult children for back child support this man did the same thing you did good luck
o-ya this guy was a Catholic priest who got 2 different 16 y/o girls pregnant
2007-02-20 22:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a sissy you are, and you represent the United States Navy???? Geesh, grow some b_lls, and be more of a man. Actually, do us all a favor, become celibate
2007-02-21 01:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Given how much back child support you could be sued for when eventually found -- might be time to look at saving some money...
2007-02-20 23:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a loser if this is true but I doubt it is. No man would admit that unless they had nothing better to do but to come on Yahoo and make up questions...
2007-02-21 00:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I am a woman. If you did, goodluck you might see one of your kids someday without knowing that he/she is your kid.
2007-02-20 21:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by guRl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋