i've been involved with the guy i'm with for almost a year and a half now (if not more, we havent been counting dates). neways, i lost my virginity 2 this guy and we always used 2 have sex, but now, i just dont want to anymore. i mean dont get me wrong, it's still good, but i just dont want to. i dont feel i'm both mentally and emotionally mature to carry on with a sexual relationship. i was thinkin of giving it up until i feel ready for it. am i weird for not wanting sex???i mean every1 else seems to be going gaga over it, but i just aint feeling it. and yes, i talked 2 him bout it and at first he was lyk its fyn we'll get thru it 2getha, now he tryz nd i'm lyk no we talkd bout this n he's lyk no, u talkd about it, u ddnt gv me a choice and he gets mad and doesnt talk 2 me 4 hrs on end and jus gives me evil eyes...wat do i do, i thought we had an understanding. now i jus do it smtymz coz i dnt want hm 2 gt mad at me, bt them he gts mad coz he knowz i dnt wanna but i'm still doin it!
2007-02-20 20:53:50 · 2 answers · asked by firefly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and i always Orgasm. its never a problem unless its through penetration (then i dnt but i heard most women dont so that was never a problem)
2007-02-20 21:03:01 · update #1
do you love him?? Dump him and start a fresh relationship with the cards on the table....Its hard and causes alot of tension for a sexual relationship to all of a sudden turn non-sexual.
2007-02-20 21:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not reaching the big O, that's why you aren't interested. You may think you are, but you won't know for sure until you do. Ask him to tie you up, gag you,and go down on you for a very long time until you explode- then you can think about having sex or not.
But, if you are not emotionally "into it" then it's time to break up for both your sakes.
2007-02-21 05:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋