When you turn a guy down, then reconsider, how do you bring this fact up with him?
Friday night, my crush indicated to me that I excited him "started a fire" in his pants. I told him "I want to drop this subject!" But I really don't want to drop it. I just didn't know how to respond. So we dropped it. Monday, I thought he was ignoring me. I knew he had been sick over the weekend. So I approached him from the point of view of "I hope you're feeling better now." He talked to me okay then. But because he said he didn't feel like himself yet, I didn't bring up Friday night. So when I see him Wednesday or Thursday, what should I say? I need to know if I have that effect on him all the time? And I want to see where he sees us heading. But I don't know speak my feelings very well. I get flustered. And I'm am a grown woman so I can't use the "I'm in the 9th grade" excuse! What would you do in my situation. I am definately interested in him. I'm just lousy with guys. But this one is terrific. I didn't think his comment was crude. I just didn't know how to respond. Help me.
2007-02-20 20:50:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating