2007-02-20 20:47:16 · 18 answers · asked by Jason W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First and foremost you must respect her choices!!! If you want "some" from this lady then I suggest you marry her. If you don't want to marry her then it is time to leave now, don't wait around and try to change her mind just so you can "get a piece". You have waited 2 years so far, so what is the big hurry all of a sudden? Make your decision, and then live with it (and hopefully her as well). Good luck.
2007-02-20 20:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By she won't give in do you mean sex?
If so then I let me tell you something. Relationships don't revolve around sex. There are other ways to spend time together and various ways to show you love her. Sex is but one of them and it's not even a gauge of how much you love one another nor is it a measure of how strong your relationship is or how meaningful your relationship is. The absence of sex in relationships is not a problem, lack of communication, lack of love, lack of loyalty, decreasing interest, these are real problems.
To keep it simple, if she does not want to have sex at this point in time RESPECT HER decision. Don't pressure her in anyway, don't make her feel bad about it. Just accept, embrace and respect her decision. It's not even a problem! It you're having a hard time accepting the fact that she does not want to "give in" then that is the problem.
2007-02-21 05:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by dr.dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you went 2 years and you are just realizing now that you will have to marry her to get some action.......... You need to keep busting out that right hand of steel or you need to get out. I can't go 2 weeks without sex little lone 2 years. I stand up and salute you sir, but don't press her whatever you do. Just try and explain how you feel and see how she feels.
2007-02-21 05:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, respect her wishes. The one you wait for is worth anything. I asked my boyfriend the same question, about if I had said I wanted to wait how would he feel. He said he loved me so much he would respect that. Even though he would want to very very very badly lol.
Love is patient.
2007-02-21 04:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love her and she said she doesnt want to i think you should respect her decision obviously she feels very strongly on her decision im sure if she changes her mind she will let you know just dont bring it up and go with the flow see where things go and see what happens but if she doesnt want to you cant make her thats a personal decision every one should have a right to make on there own
2007-02-21 05:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that you would be happy she isn't that kind of girl but, the kind you can introduce to your parents and be proud of. If you love her, marry her and if not, let her go so she can find someone who does. What should you do? Be glad she isn't the type to just sleep with you because, you want to.
2007-02-21 04:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes and be glad that you actually found a girl that has enough self-respect to be willing to wait. If you truly love her, you will wait and not pressure her!
2007-02-21 04:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married its a good life cheers ~
2007-02-21 04:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect her feelings! don't marry just for it and don't run if you love her as by the time you're right to marry then it'll be wonderful!
2007-02-21 04:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple try not asking!
come on. . . try to be a man don't ask these kinds of question its embarrassing!
and tell your GF virginity is over rated it does not justify love.
may be she doesn't see you as the guy she would marry!
try asking her that.
if that doesn't work try ******* somebody else, may be she'll come to her senses..
Jamall69
2007-02-21 05:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by jamall69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋