Well, after knowing this young man for nearly all my life, i am older than him by 9 years. I am 31 and he is 22. Me and him have shared apartments,clothes,baths,and... parents. The young man I am talking about is my younger brother Franklin, and ther is nothing more that i want out of life than his love in return. I know this is illegal in the U.S. but I just love him so much that it pains me to see him. I tried to tell him before but i was too afraid to say what i wanted. If anyone can give me any help it would be much appreciated. Dont be too mean to me im already broken up about this as it is. Please help me god.
2007-02-20 20:34:11 · 9 answers · asked by DeadHookerSoup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jery springer
2007-02-20 20:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by mattwolfyowolf 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I really hope that people are not mean to you. It takes guts to admit to something like this.
Can I ask if you are homosexual or you just have homosexual feelings because he is your brother?
Its not only illegal in the US but pretty much every country in the world and it is also not the sort of thing that tollerant places would welcome.
I think you have confused love here with a more outward physical emotion. You feel so linked and in tune with him that it has started to make you tink of the physical way of expressing this. I think you need to see a professional councilor and get to the root of this emotion as it is not a natural response. Most older brothers feel protective and proud but not this.
I dont really see any merit in telling him how you feel. He is going to be more than a bit uncomfortable to hear this news and may end up never speaking to you again. Is this something you want from someone you love so much? It will also break your family apart and you may find yourself totally on your own. Even if (and it is very unlikely) he did share your feelings, you should not act on them, it WILL spoil your relationship and you will be shunned from society...this is a taboo which will NEVER be ok in society.
The reason for your attracton will have to be something to do with something that happened to you or between you as children and a psychotherapist is the only person who can help you. They will not judge you and they will be able to help.
Do NOT go on Jerry Springer. These shoes are designed to split families apart and sensationalise everything for the publics pleasure. They do not help the participants at all.
I really hope that you get help. Please dont mention anything to your family until you have worked it out with a professional.
I wish you all the luck int he world.
2007-02-21 04:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest maybe talking to a counsler or a therepy group if you can. Pray for Gods help to guide you in the right way. You dont want to break apart your family. Also is your brother homosexual as well?
2007-02-21 04:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by KOOSE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I, too, have struggled with homosexual attraction toward my own siblings. It's a very difficult road brother, and i commend you for having the strength to come out in the open with it.
For years, every time i looked at my older brother scott i just... felt this heat inside me.. I wanted him soooo bad. Eventually one night i got him drunk and took advantage of him. it was truly wonderous! i never enjoyed sucking another man's cock as much as i did my brother's.. It was the best night of my life.. And also the worst..
You see our dad walked in on us, me mid stroke with his scrotum in my mouth and my left middle finger shoved knuckle deep into his sweet ***.. well to say my dad freaked would be an understatement.. He beat me, and disowned me.. My brother wont even talk to me now, even though i know he enjoyed it as much as i did! i'm all alone now.. i drink and cry myself to sleep every day.. I'll never be complete without scott.....
OH GOD TELL YOUR BROTHER HOW YOU FEEL NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE. DONT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES I DID, SHARE YOUR HEART WITH HIM AND YOU COULD HAVE EVERYTHING I NEVER GOT
2007-02-21 04:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i won't be mean. but, man, it is just not possible. couldn't you divert your feelings to other men? not your brother, pls? what if your brother hated you after you tell him of your feelings? wouldn't it make you more miserable? there are things you want but you can't have and this is one of those. man, please don't do it. not with your brother. i know how it feels to have an unrequited love but... it is just not possible. don't do it, man.
2007-02-21 04:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound Like you are really concerned about your behavior ...........you might want to stop,and really ythink things trogh in your mind honey!!!!!!!!you are not right!you are not
in your right state of mind and you might want to snap out of what ever state of mind youre in .you need help....get it while you still have enough commmon sence to realise that you are asking this question out of concern ,right? I am no one to judge but please get some help while you still can.....
2007-02-21 04:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill yourself. Thats the best advice I can give you.
2007-02-21 04:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by x_ampz_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on jerry springer
2007-02-21 04:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
^---------- that would be a funny suicide note
2007-02-21 04:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by goiowa6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋