My 6 year old kid has become vry stubborn, how do I deal with this & she doesnt even want to study, please he

Question

Kindly let me know how to change this behaviour in her. She starts crying even for a very same things. She is the only kid I have.

Answer 1

she is needing something or missing out on something.
You need to find out what it is.
I had same problem with my 9 year old.
we have a special day together every fortnight which is just him and i time.
we do what he wants.
it worked for me (us)
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Answer 2

Hey dear.... nothing to panic about that. See I wont blame ur kid 4 her behaviour. Generally at this age kids usually become stubborn and want each and every wish of theirs to be fulfilled. One simple thing that you do is dont force her to study all the time but instead try to teach her in play-way style I mean you study all her poems first and then whenever you get time just sing it to her with actions. She will definitely learn and develop interest in studies. And please dont send your child to tuition classes. It will make her dependent on others and will spoil her future. you are an Educated women and must utilize your education to bring up your child. There is no teacher better than a MOTHER.She is too young and needs your guidence so be a kid with her and see how she follows your foot steps. Dont give up when she cry and give away what she wants instead let her know why are you saying NO to what she is asking for... but thoda pyaar se.

Answer 3

I watched super nanny and I hope this help. Don't shout back when she shouts at u. But instead talk to her in a stern voice and look at her on her level. That way she knows who's the boss. Do like a naughty corner, the stairs or anything but remember not to lock her up or anything. Just a space that she knows it's her naughty corner. If she doesn't listen to u though u've told her to, tell her to sit at the naughty corner for the minutes of her age which would be 4 mins. After 4 mins go to her and tell her u want an apology. Make sure it's a sincere apology before that asked her does she knows what she did wrong? Explain to her what she did is wrong. Like when u wanna read to her she wants to watch cartoons..etc.

Answer 4

You need to show your child that you are on her side. Tell her that you understand and that studying sucks to high heaven. Then take her out to her favorite place to eat and flood her with fun for a couple of days. She has been on this planet for six years, stop expecting so much from her. Show her that you are her best friend and not her taskmaster. Then talk to her about how she has to do things that are required of all children, namely study and school. Another helpful tool is to give her the answers to her work once you see that she has mastered the process of finding the answers. Meaning, if she knows how to add, and her homework calls for her to do 100 addition problems, just give her the answers to the problems and she will see you as being on her side.

Answer 5

I understand your problem as I also have a 6 year old brother with the same attitude!
Tell her the following story and she'll understand:
Once upon a time there was a boy. His name was Peter. He was very rich. He had all the things in the world, but he would still ask for more and more of them. He had lots of friends,not because he was good to them but because he was rich. One day he went to his best friend Joe's house, and he saw that he had a toy robot but Peter did not have it. When he went home he asked his daddy for it.But his daddy said "NO! You cannot have it".And Peter asked "Why not?".His daddy did not say anyhing but he shouted "WHY NOT?".His daddy still did not say anything. Peter kept shouting "WHY,WHY,WHY,WHY,WHY?". Not after long daddy finally told him that he did not have enough money for it. So he made a plan! One night when everyone was asleep, he went to Joe's house and stole it and thought that after some time he would return it back and nobody would know that it was gone! But that did not happen and tomorrow when Joe woke up he found out his robot was gone and he went crying to his best friend's house to tell him what had happened. When he reached there he found out that Peter was sneakily playing with it in his room. He snached it from him and went home. From now on Joe never talked to Peter again and Peter lost his best friend forever.Moral:To much of anything is bad.
And Rose if she does not get better with this story then tell me

Answer 6

first of all,be kind with ur kid.whatever bad incident may be.spend more time with her.make her to speak and find what she likes and dislikes.give freedom to her and encourage her to do what she is intereted.dont compul her toomuch or hurt her with ur words.be like a friend to her,so that she will be comfortable with u.if u compul her she will become too angry and stubborn,so make her to understand want she wants and what is good for her with ur kind words.when she grows she will be alright.if she didnt study properly,leave her to play for sometimes and give her compliments like chocolates and toys if she study well.she will surely get encouraged and have the interest to study and get good marks.dont worry she will be alright.make her understand u love her so much then she will automatically understand u in future and obey ur words.

Answer 7

I find giving my kids a choice always works so long as the out come is what you want. e.g time to brush teeth and go to bed.......you can have a story then brush your teeth and go to bed or 5 min play then brush your teeth and time for bed.

Answer 8

Call Nanny 911.

Answer 9

First increase your love,persuade her to do what you want.praise her every time she does anything to your liking.if she does anything unpalatable politely tell her,if she does not heed,then raise your voice.adopt your own methods to reward her for good deeds and ignore her for bad ones.