I need fast help with fighting????

Question

There is a kid, 1 month older than me. he challenged me to a fight.
i will meet him in school day after tommorow. he has got muscles, my height and a good body structure. he is flexible. he wins fights. i can't fight him, but will have to. please help.....!!!!

Answer 1

You never have to fight unless you are in a critical situation and you have no way out. But if you have to, just keep your guard up, your arms will have to protect your face, liver(right side), stomach and hit him when he's open. Also, if he is bigger, faster, u can use any means necessary: groin, shins, all the soft spots. Oh, and the chin is also the best way to knockout sb. But my advice is if you have alternatives, use them. Don't get into a fight just because your ego is challenged. That is just stupid. I know people who can fight well, but they would never get into a fight unless there's an immediate threat to their life(incidentally, if anybody asks for your wallet holding a knife to you, just give it to them). Otherwise, it's not worth it.
1 last thing: never lose your cool. Don't get angry, whatever he says. The angry person always loses. Always stay focused. You see a breach in his defence, attack.

Answer 2

I have two suggestions for you 1st-bring a small bat or handle from a tool with you that you can hide on your person until needed, then be sure to actually hit this guy with it several times, and real hard each time-don't stop till he is down and gives up the fight (he must concede the fight and say he wont want another later or you keep hitting him till you get him to say it); 2nd-at the first opportunity you get kick him in the balls, or the knee (trying to break it). This is a fight, and there are no rules in a fight-you fight to win and do whatever it takes to win. Don't listen to anyone that tells you that it is "dirty" fighting..there is no such thing!! In a fight, you either win or loose....which do prefer? You do whatever it takes to stop this other guy as fast as you can!! But remember that once he is down AND has conceded the fight you must stop hitting him. I have been in more fights than I care to remember, and all the ones I actually won were because I did what was needed to win, regardless of what it was (and all my opponents were bigger and stronger than me-I'm just a little guy myself). Good luck, and give him hell!!

Answer 3

I don't know why he challenged you to fight, maybe because he feels he can beat you? if you are not confident you can't win, just do your best, if you back out you'll look like a coward, and if you fight you'll most likely lose, so either way you are screwed. What you can do is let him know before the fight, and make it very clear, that even though he might win, you are not afraid of him. At least he'll respect you.

Answer 4

Hey have a seat. I have a very bad news for you.

Take a few deep breath and relaxes before you read this.

Ok... here I goes, listen, you'll lose the fight peroid! You have no confidient at all, you already say you'll lose and that's what will happen. You have no advantage of any kind over him at all, you have no experience, you probably never throw a punch in your entire life, he's bigger than you, and he have more experience for sure and most important of all, he's confidient and he know he wil win. So he'll win.

This is how it'll most likely go:

You two will do "pigeon square off" which is when you two walk up toward eachother to try intimidate eachother and press your chest against eachother. It'll start as a shoving match, finally one of you will get mad enough to come in with a wide wild hay maker. That's when the fist start to fly, there'll be few hay makers, windmill punch, hammer fist, and other sloppy techniques thrown. Finally the boy will gain upper hand over you and knock you down somehow. Once you're on the ground, he'll get on top of you and hold you down while he pounds away at your face. You'll most likely start to cry and trembles. It'll go on for few more minutes befre he stand up and try to get you to fight again. You'll get up and beg him to let you go as everyone else laugh at you and try get you to continue. This boy may will let you go or get more mad and throw few more punches.

After that you'll get in lot of trouble with the school and your parents. Plus everyone in the school will laugh at you for losing the fight for weeks or months.

Answer 5

Walk away. I hate to sound crass, but there's no point in accepting a fight unless you absolutely have to (and your reputation is never a good excuse).

I had a student tell me once that he'd accepted a challenge to fight, then ask me to help him with it. I told him to either be at the kwoon the next day after school to avoid the fight or never darken my doorway again. He's one of the most talented students in the kwoon now.

Answer 6

Notify the School staff and tell them you want to remain anonymous and make sure that no-one sees you go in or out of the office or that none of the other students are in the office at the time. Other students will talk and the stories & facts will change as the rumor gets around.
Schools have a zero tollerence for figthing.

Good luck.
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Answer 7

then why did you accept the challenge? perhaps it would have been wiser to have him think he can beat you than actually beat you.

if you go through with it you will have to change your way of thinking. stop looking at his strengths and start looking for weaknesses. and dont give him any credit until you actually fight and find out. whatever you do, dont stand there and take it, swing away and make it hard for him to win easily. that way, you will be less likely to be seen as a push over.

but seriously, dont accept in future. its like gambling, you shouldnt do it unless you know you will win. hope isnt a friend in fighting.

you guys are only 12 arent you. from your other posts i see that you are your worst enemy. accepting fights you are afraid of.

Answer 8

Trick is to end the fight quickly, especially if his physique clearly has the advantage over yours. However, because he's overly developed his only attack move is to punch you out. That means he's open for attack in other positions he may not have the ability to guard.

Can he move fast, sprint quickly (probably not)? If you're leaner, you can use this to your advantage.

To block his punches, make a cross with your arms (not an X; one fist pointing towards sky) while your hands are in fists, and hold them in front of your face. He'll throw a punch and you block this way, at the same time, he left his whole front wide open and you move in and take a hard swing at any vulnerable area exposed. But make sure you do get him, otherwise he'll come back at you stronger and meaner. You want to knock him out in one move if possible.

A pansy move on his part would be to grab onto you by your arm or shirt- DON'T GIVE HIM THIS CHANCE!

When you throw your punch, DON'T extend your arm all the way out, that leaves you open for him to break it at your elbow . Keep your arms up and elbows close to your body (think like a boxer) and only strike when necessary.

Also, Avoid punches to the head in general as they are more severe blows and will take you out faster than blows to other parts of the body.

Don't let the fight drag on, especially if he has a lot of stamina. You're gonna want to end it fast. This is about preservation, not kicking a** so remember that. Hey, he may tire fast before you do anyway!

A punch to the nose may put him out of commission fast! Be careful, be alert and keep your two eyeballs on his face so you can determine which way he'll strike out at you. Or simply tell your school principal about his threats, it may be easier.

Answer 9

This isn't your first question like this. Why are people always trying to beat the crap out of you?

Sounds like you need to kick him in the nuts and run.
After that, stay off of the Internet for a while. We can't teach you self defense on a Q&A forum. And sitting in a chair begging for help from strangers isn't going to get you in the kind of shape you need to be in if you're going to be fighting people all the time.

Best of luck.

Answer 10

Try always to evade a fight. You are at an age where the benefit of education will serve your defense best. If all else fails here are some techniques. But talk to an adult you trust before anything.
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