im hopeless cuz he thinx im just nice but im flirting i mean im a GREAT flirt but i cant seem to do it with him cuz wen i c him then i just cant say anything cuz my heart races andi blush and i just do a llittle giggle i mean its cute but i want to FLIRT WITH HIM!!!!!
2007-02-20 20:12:40 · 9 answers · asked by nicole l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you cant concentrate because you are too hot.
try flirting without your clothes... it works better, you'll see.
2007-02-20 23:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Ron K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you really have a crush on this great guy. Take a minute though to breathe.....and because he is a great friend to you, why is it so hard for you to relate to him? Crushes are someone who we idolize and dream about being that perfect man. Somehow getting to know this guy is sooner or later going to let you down into what you dreamed he would be instead of who he is.....(unless he is Superman, and he is allready taken, he's my husband....) :-) just kidding
Take some time to get to know him, ask him questions, he should love that......Remember important times for him like his birthday, his mother's birthday, etc, to show him you care about him. It isn't what you say that will win over your Superman for you, it's how you act toward him. If you are all over him, then he might just brush you aside, but get to know him, and act like a friend, because that is what you are after, a lifetime friendship, not a one time slumber party.....
Develop your friendship with him and dig a little deeper than an average friend would and make him want to see more of you.
You might even consider asking him out on a date if he is that shy, I have never done that, but would not be held back by me being a woman. Many women ask guys out. If he is gay, then you should just keep idolizing and dreaming for your Superman, but if not, you sound like a great person, so go get him! :-)
I hope the best for you, btw...
2007-02-20 20:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an sms, even if he's in the same room with you. Something cute. Try acting a bit child-like or silly or just not the regular you around him. Make fun of him, physically play with him.
I got my friend (my crush, actually) to playfully pull on my pony-tail and that was a sign he was willing to play the game.
Tease him a little. Guys like seeing the napes of our necks especially the soft baby hairs that grow there. If you have long or medium hair pretend to do your hair in a pony tail but take your time with your hair up and your nape naked in front of him. Make it as sensual as possible. *giggles*
2007-02-20 20:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by sk|TTLes™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny - that's how my husband & I fell in love - we worked together & we were best of friends - we NEVER intended to fall in love with each other - I was in charge of his division & he is almost 20 yrs older than I am but little by little we both fell in love at the same time - I don't remember having to flirt with him or him having to flirt with me - just tell him how you feel - If you like to flirt & he has the same feelings about you then he will get the picture - once my husband & I finally got together THAT'S when all the flirting started & 10 years later we still flirt like crazy with each other!!!
2007-02-20 20:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay your Head, on his Shoulder And give him that pretty Little Pout, that you're known for. He'll get the hint.
2007-02-20 20:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him a kiss on chick or lips or something,if only u like him.
2007-02-24 04:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by minashley005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like hey wanna make out?
2007-02-20 20:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him your ankle.
2007-02-20 20:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pounce on him - or just gt him drunk
2007-02-20 20:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋