ok well this thing is driving me up the wall...i went out with this girl who got out of a very serious relationship with this guy...we went out and i really like her..but then she said her and him were getting back together...i asked her if she and him were completely through in future if she would ever go out with me again...her answer was..." i think its best i didnt answer that,just let things happen".....what does that answer from her mean???
2007-02-20 20:11:00 · 6 answers · asked by seventy9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looking needy isn't cool, basicly you're like "Oh my gawd, I guess it's ok you kiss and make out with this other guy, is it cool if I stand by and watch while I hope you break up?"
She basicly has commited to this other guy, and doesn't want to commit to you. There's honestly not that much to it.
2007-02-20 20:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by goiowa6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone... truly love someone... you fight for that relationship. Sometimes people take breaks and realize afterwards the problems that existed can be fixed, or at least can be attempted to fix. She wants to try to fix the broken. You can only respect her for that.
Just be there for her, reassure her that you care for her and only want to see her happy. Sometimes relationships the 2nd time around work out, sometimes they don't. She has to find out the possibilities on her own.
It's nothing you did or didn't do. It's just love. If you care about her, just let figure it out and go from there. It sucks, believe me I know it sucks, but it's best she knows for sure what she wants rather than pulling you along and then breaking your heart months down the road.
Hang in there and I wish you the very best!
2007-02-20 20:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know! it's the worse a girl can go through after marriage. She can wait n try to win over him for about an year or so or till she can hold him. Still if it doesn't out then quit from his life n she must look for a person who will really love her. Pregnancy at this time should be avoided.
2016-05-24 01:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you still have a chance to vie with the guy and want the relationship to happen naturally. Continue showing your care and concern for her as a suitor and best friend. If she is touched, she will be with you eventually. If she doesn't, you don't lose out either because she can still be your best friend.
If she decided to stick with that guy, just be a gentleman and respect her decision but still continue to be her friend. Don't lose a lover and lose friend at the same time. The feeling is damn miserable. Just don't have any regret for not loving someone.
2007-02-20 20:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by warrax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as I understand it, she isn't planning on the relationship failing but in her heart she probably has a slight feeling it will otherwise she wouldnt have left an opportunity to come back to you which is exactly what she did. If she didn't like you I would say that she would have said something more along the lines on I don't think so but I hope we can be friends. she feels something you feel something hopefully it will turn into something
2007-02-20 20:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Denise6433 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a women tell me this. just give the women your phone number and tell her to call you if she ever needs someone
less then two weeks later she showed up in my house(i never locked my door) in my bed drinking some wine and crying "where were you?" she caught her boyfriend coming out of a motel with a women..and when he came out the door he was zipping his pants up.
well she was a lot of fun for awhile..but yes, you know she is leaving the door open with that last remark...duh?
2007-02-20 20:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋