i have a married friend. we're classmate, we meet 10 hours a day, he always bugging me... he told me "don't luv me coz i have a wife" I SWEAR I DONT LIKE HIM AT ALL, but he always do anything to make me argue wid him, until my teacher ask him why he always do that (he's married!!) and he's 8 years older than MEEEH!! and HE TELL other people that i like him,,
i wanna tell him NICELY to STOP making problems wid me, but i dont wanna get mad and i still wanna be friend wid him coz we're college student and we're only 5 in class and we'll still be together as classmate for 2 years til we graduate,I juz wanna be nice.
or.. shud i just ignore him? or what? i dont really know what to do
2007-02-20 20:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by wEnNy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you respect his marriage and would never think of him as anything more than a friend. Secondly you could keep some distance from him. That way the arguments would be less. All the best.
2007-02-20 20:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by sue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would avoid this guy, he just seems like he is trying to get a rise out of you, if you ever keep on responding to his obnoxious comments then more will keep on flowing in like water from a hole in a barrel, so be the mature one and show that you are more focused on schoolling and will do academically much better than this "man". If it goes too far and it truly bothers you, you should definitely file a complaint in your school because it does seem like a case of sexual harassment!
2007-02-20 20:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would just say:
"I HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO THAN ARGUE, LIKE STUDYING, Y DONT U GIVE IT A TRY!?!" and then walk away
wen he sees u next just say that u need to work on ur studies and have no time for friends and if hes sucha jerk than jsut forget about being his friend make it clear to him u DONT LIKE HIM and then jsut say we're classmates, thats IT! and shake his hand and walk away, call me oldfashioned but thats watd id do :]
BEST OF LUCK TO YA BABES!<333
2007-02-20 20:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by nicole l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just kid him that you will tell his wife about all this nonsense and believe me it will take just a few moments to set him right. Don't get so bothered about it as he is just having fun by irritating you... Well you know how boys are....
2007-02-20 20:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever he makes one of his highly inappropriate comments, just shake your head and say to people around you: "I do wish he would get the help he needs. It is kind of pathetic, don't you think?"
2007-02-20 20:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he annoys you and you don't like him at all ...
tell so that he'll know..
2007-02-20 20:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by daphne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋