I'm 13, and I still haven't had my first kiss. Is there something wrong with me? I'm turning 14 in a month...(-_-III)
2007-02-20 19:40:15 · 21 answers · asked by ...Ev1l Gen1uS... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, my best friend- she was a real tomboy, like me, and didn't care how she looked or dressed, and didn't wear make-up, or girly clothes. She moved to Hawaii a while ago and she has a boyfriend now. She told me how she already french-kissed with him, too...
2007-02-20 19:46:58 · update #1
no. there is nothing wrong with you. just because it seems many girls are getting into kissing and relationships around you doesn't mean you have to jump into it. i had my first kiss when i was 15. and you know what? it was pretty awesome. i'm almost 20 now & my boyfriend thinks i'm a great kisser! lol. so it doesn't matter when you have your first kiss. have fun with your life right now - school and friends and everything. you want your first kiss to be special.. so wait until the right guy and the right moment comes along. it's a moment you'll always remember! there's nothing wrong with you, you don't need to worry about this right now =) good luck!
2007-02-20 19:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by peaches87 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN, don't be in such a hurry, your only thirteen. I know you young teens are always in such a rush to grow up because I was one. Believe me, you'll be older sooner than you think. Don't rush into your first kiss because if you do you will settle for doing it with someone who doesnt mean anything to you, and if you do it with someone that doesn't mean anything to you than the kiss will ALWAYS be a dissapointment. A kiss is merely an expression, or reflection of the way two people feel about each other on the inside. The kiss itself is not what makes kissing good, it's what you feel for that person that makes it so awesome. So if you rush into it and do it with someone just to do it, odds are it's not going to be any good. You should wait until you have someone who really cares about you and vice versa, then it will be good no matter what, even if both of you don't know how to kiss. Even someone who is a good kisser will be bad if they don't care about you. The same thing goes for sex, but I say wait until marriage because I'm a Christian. Remember this, every guy that says I love you may just be trying to get you to have sex with him, if he won't wait it means that he doesn't love you or even care about you. Love is patient and will wait as long as it takes. You will regret having sex too early, but you can't see that until it's too late, unless you listen to people like me.
2007-02-21 04:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by mrjixer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, nothing it wrong with you at all! TV/movies/peers and telling you what your life should be like-- when you should get your first kiss, when you should have sex, etc. Don't listen! Just enjoy your youth and don't make kissing and stuff your priority. Besides, you could be labeled a slut if you are doing stuff like that too early...
2007-02-21 03:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong. slow down. I was 16 and it really wasn't that great of a thing. No fireworks or anything like that and when it was over I was like That's it? Just don't rush it.
2007-02-21 03:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 14 darlin. Don't you worry, you'll have plenty of opportunities for kissing. Better to make your first a good one than to rush into it just to make it happen.
2007-02-21 03:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was more excited when I had my first quiche, my first keys (car), and my first kilt (you know guys don't wear anything under their kilt?)
Besides, when I had my first kiss, I caught a cold. And the girl had bad breath, anyway.
Their are better things in life.
2007-02-21 03:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
patience dear girl!!! im 14, im not rushing into those kinds of things. you need to take time. your growth hormones are taking over you now. worry about that when youre 16. for now, just focus on whats important in your life.
2007-02-21 03:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by blingding 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you*
i had mine when i was 14. just wait till you find the right person for your first kiss. dont rush :-)
2007-02-21 03:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient
u start to worry on the age of 40
2007-02-21 04:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by stranger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That appears to be quite a normal situation. Nothing wrong.
2007-02-21 03:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋