I know this guy who just moved into my town. I met him through my mutual friend. We flirt off and on, but nothing serious. He calls me by terms of endearment, and I will respond to him with pet names as well. I know we are just friends, and I don't know him enough to know if he can be a player.
but I do wonder how he is under the sheets. :) I think we would make wild and crazy sex together, but relationship?? It is way too soon to tell.
Should I be like ' the heck with getting to know ya, let's just get rid of this tension by making "LOVE" ' ?
Or,
should I just keep on fantasizing and let time take its course... ??
2007-02-20 19:29:34 · 16 answers · asked by denh 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he wants the same thing I want, so should I just wait and see ?
2007-02-20 19:31:12 · update #1
I would say, let time run it's course. I'm not saying be promiscuous or anything like that, i'm just saying if that's what works then let it work. Sometimes the only problem with doing that is that after the sex people start to treat each other differently. So if you want to stay friends with this guy once the sex is overwith then i suggest that you don't hop into it just yet. But you have to do what's right for you. Be wise in your decisions.
2007-02-20 19:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by krione 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I would just want a little longer before the whole jumping on each other. You gotta figure out what kind of guy he really is, he could be good or he could be the one where he will go around and say to everbody that you were the worst he ever had.
2007-02-20 20:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you want. Sex know could clear the tension to better things, depending what he's like. Or it could just satisfy your lust. I sense you want lust right now. Let the rest follow if it's there.
2007-02-20 19:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are wonderful to say thing without saying it straight, but though gestures. Let him know, what you want, and he must be waiting for that signal.
2007-02-20 19:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by psgnathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not allow things to take place naturally, dont be too forward it will make u appear too cheap and desperate.
2007-02-20 19:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it you will enjoy it more then any other sex if you just go out for a drink or invite him over have a couple of drinks and go at it you will have an awesome time.
2007-02-20 19:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would play it out a little longer. It will make that moment more spectacular and enjoyable.
2007-02-20 19:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Once you do it, it loses its appeal! He may stop being so attracted to you and vice versa! Trust me-- Just wait! It really is worth it
2007-02-20 19:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLD ON TO YOUR SELF RESPECT.IT IS GOING TO BE AROUND LONGER THAN THIS PLAYER IS. FLIRTING IS ONE THING,AND JUST SEX WITH NO LOVE INVOLVED,IS COMPLETLY DIFFERENT. IF YOU NEED TO ASK SOMEBODY ELSES OPINION,YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART HE IS WRONG FOR YOU.
2007-02-20 19:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by stacy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u r very sexy girl i like it u do crazy sex lol
2007-02-20 20:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ahmad E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋