My girl friend keeps getting mad that I talk to my exs.Out of my 10 girl friends i'm friends with 3.I had a party and invited them and my girl friend I can by the look of her face that shes mad.I love my girl friend there just friends.On myspace they added her my girl friend fliped out.My exs are my closest friends I love my girl friend so much I will stop talking to them for her.My sister saids friends and family come first.Deep down I feel like brakeing up with her what should I do?
2007-02-20 18:24:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like these (ex-girl) friends are really important to you, and it also sounds like you think you deserve a girl that understands that. It's reasonable to think that a new girlfriend might be a little jealous and uncomfortable, so try to be reasonable with her and give her what you think should be a fair amount of reassurance and patience. If she doesn't bend on it... well... it sounds like you know what you would have to do.
2007-02-20 18:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's healthy that you are able to be friends with ex's. It shows you have matured and are able to realize that it isn't 'madly in love or nothing at all'. You are able to endure a relationship, the breaking of the relationship and move on as friends. Nothing wrong with that. What happens if you break up with your girlfriend? Then you have also lost your friends. Your girlfriend sounds immature and insecure. Here is something that is old but not out-dated---"Remember well and bear in mind, a constant friend is hard to find. But when you find one who proves true---never forsake the old for the new".
2007-02-20 18:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by DixeVil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look from experience, I believe if she truely loves you, she would trust you.. Ex's are ex's for a reason.. She needs to deal with her insecurities first before she should be with anyone.. You are doing the right thing by doing YOUR thing.. You have the right to talk to whoever and whenever!
2007-02-20 18:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES why do you think they call them X's? I have a feeling you are soon gonna have to change the 10 Ex's number to 11...
2007-02-20 18:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to her that there is a reason they are ex's. If you wanted to be with them you would still be with them. Instead you are with her. It is hard to be with someone and not form a bond with them that remains a friendship. Especially if the relationship ended amicably.
2007-02-20 18:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im moving in with my ex so I think its ok, thats if your bf or gf is secure enough to handle it. If not then do what u need to do. Im sure she has guys too and adds them or whatever, trust her she'll trust u.
2007-02-20 18:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by lovebug 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yesssssssssssssss , for get aout what your sis said who will wake up next to you when you get married who will be there first if something goes wrong? your girl! yes fam and friends love you but dont gamble with your soul mate your friends will soon have theirs and they will not chose you over them.
2007-02-20 18:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
she is just feeling insecure.
2007-02-20 18:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by superwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋