i am caught up in a love triangle or should i say four angles(square) see there's this guy i'm deeply in love with and so is he. the problem is i just patched things up with my boyfriend the chemistry is gone between us i just said yes coz i didn't want to hurt him and now there's this guy i used to date and love so much. he's been calling me lately asking me to take him back etc and i don't know what to do. the problem is i like all three of them what should i do i don't want to hurt either one of them.... please help a sister decide!!!
2007-02-20 18:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by sweetie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you can't have all three. I would be totally and completely honest with all of them and let them decide if they still want YOU knowing that you've fallen for the others...
2007-02-20 18:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a mess you're in! My thoughts................you should move out on your own for a while, get your head together, and then think about who you want to be with. I don't think you really know who you love, if any of them. You sound too young to commit to one man. You should probably just see people for a while. Be honest with the guys and tell them you are not ready to commit to a relationship, because with this many doubts, you're really not. If you keep this up , everyone's gonna get hurt.
2007-02-21 02:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in the first part of your little paragraph you mentioned being DEEPLY in love...when you are in love with someone there isn't going to be any other intrest in any other guys. If you're deeply in love with someone and the feeling is mutual why not be with that person? You're just wasting your time and the other guys' times by messing with them. You don't want to ruin your chances with all of them?? You have to make your decision and I think you already did when you admitted to being madly in love.
2007-02-21 02:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but find some self-respect, then you'll find the guy that's right for you... going back to a guy that you really didn't want to (just because you didn't want to hurt him) is downright disrespecting yourself.
2007-02-21 02:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u need to make up ur mind quickly the longer u delay it the more chance they will get hurt. Even worse so will u .
2007-02-21 02:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PICk the best one and move on.
2007-02-21 02:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋