I dated this guy on and off for about six months, but we finally broke up for good about a month ago. I moved to the same state that he lives in (but to the opposite side of it) to kind of see what would happen between us and also to be closer to my family again. It turns out though that I hate living in the city and i hate the school i am at. I am now transferring to another school that is only about an hour from where he lives. Even though we broke up, I would like it if we could be friends (our relationship was not ever really much more than that because it was long distance except for the first two weeks we met). But I know that if I tell him that I am moving down there he is going to think I am stalking him or something. He might already know tho because my friend wrote something about it on my myspace. So is there anyway I can tell him that I am moving down there or that I already did in a couple months and see if we can be friends? Or will that creep him out?
2007-02-20 17:55:27 · 7 answers · asked by menau 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a big world, so what if he freaks out, you dont have to be his friend. Don't give him the reason to freak, keep going to school and get yours boo. And then maybe he will try to stalk you after he sees that you're moving on. What ever happens, i wish you the best!
2007-02-20 18:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by B. Gregory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 10:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should pick a good school that will help you in your career instead of trying to be closer to him. I think you're thinking that there's still a chance to be with him again?
If i were him, I'd think you were stalking me and it would creep the crap out of me! I think you should move on.
2007-02-20 18:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's think about this. Why would you even tell him your moving there, your an hour away. Why do you even care what he thinks, you broke up. Why be friends, move on.
Sounds like you can't get this person off your mind. I mean you still care about what they think, what they think,........ you broke up, who cares. Maybe you should evaluate your true feelings about the person and ask yourself, (Could you and do you know how to just be friends) or do you think it will be cool if you guys can still hang out. Come on now.....
2007-02-20 18:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by vacera g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give both of you time to figure out what you both want. if he decides that he wants to be friends later on then it won't be a problem when you ask him. if he has to think about it for a long time he might not be ready quite yet. some people can't separate being together and then going into friends right away. trust me i know.
2007-02-20 17:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by basic324 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls can't really stalk. Girls are the only ones that complain about being stalked, guys enjoy be stalked as long as the girl isnt trying to kill us.
2007-02-20 17:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahhh just explain it to him, it wont creep him out,...
2007-02-20 18:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋