he said i was his everything. he said i was the most beautiful girl in the world. the next thing i know hes saying the same thing to other girls and hes ignoring me and blaming me for everything that goes wrong. next thing i know hes gone and now it looks like hes already dating other girls. it hurts so much i dont know what to do :(
everything that i based my love for him upon was a big fat lie.
what am i supposed to do now? im so hurt.
2007-02-20 17:53:42 · 6 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously, this man lied to you. Move on, but be more careful next time. There are all kinda pitfalls out there in the world of dating and romance.
2007-02-20 17:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it! Stop the pity party and re-group. Be glad that he is out of your life and move on. And as for blaming you, don't fall for that, let him take his own blame. You are not a doormat for no man to lay down his insecurities and frivolous ways. Smarten up girl an regain your self-respect. Oh, and by the way, there is always someone more beautiful than you. Stop falling for these played out lines and get in touch with who you are and what it is that you want in a relationship and eliminate the psycho losers.
2007-02-20 18:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fortunate to learn your boyfriends true nature now. The longer it went on the more painful it would have been when you found out. If that happens again in the future with someone else you mght ask what it is about yourself that is attracting these kind of guys.
2007-02-20 18:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by stedyedy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear that you are hurting and angry and sad.
What he did has nothing to do with you. You are precious, loveable, and worthy to be loved.
What he is doing is revealing his damage, his inability to experience love, his character defects. These things were not caused by you, they are his.
The best thing you can do now is to be kind to yourself. Be gentle and loving to yourself. He cannot hurt you without your permission. Yes, you hurt, yes you feel angry, no, it isn't forever. You are precious! His bad behavior cannot change your preciousness. To heal, let him go. Say goodbye in your heart. Say hello to your loveable self.
He didn't do this to you personally. It has nothing to do with you. He has done this before and will do it again. He is acting out his own drama. It's not our job to figure out why. That is his responsibility. Your job is to love and protect yourself.
Kind regards
2007-02-20 18:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that many guys will do this; be sweet and say anything that makes you feel good, then two-time, or dump you for another as soon as one comes along.
2007-02-20 22:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he uses the same lines to every girl that catches his fancy, sounds like a very un-original player that likes to charm, sleep then discard his playthings.
2007-02-20 17:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋