Would you still go on and have sex with the xbf who is already engaged.
I had sex with him, i dunno y and i really love him.
How should i stop myself from loving him ? Can anyone tell me pls?
2007-02-20 17:50:18 · 12 answers · asked by Saga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
definitely not, you will regret it and end up with a bad after taste
2007-02-20 17:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by faiza_t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still in love with him and that's understandable. Just make sure that it's love you're feeling for him and not that because you're going to lose him to another woman. He probably still loves you and misses you in some way. He has to decide what he wants to do. If he is still intimate with you, then he must not love his fiancee like he thought he did..........or he isn't really over you. It could also be that he's going back to you for memories' sake. You two need to figure this all out before he gets married. No one is to blame here............that's life and LOVE!
2007-02-21 01:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to realize that he has moved on to someone else and he is ready to make a commitment to his fiance. you can't change what you feel for him but you can take care of yourself by looking out for the only person that matters is you. u have 2 b strong and independent. love is an emotion that gets all of us but we can move on. there are so many other men in the sea. having sex with him will only make you more miserable inside. like i said take care of yourself first
2007-02-21 01:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by basic324 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop contact with him altogether, it's causing you more pain and wanting to be with him and you already have heartfelt feelings toward him making it harder on you. Get involved with friends or some activities that will keep you from thinking about him, it does you or his fiancee no good to mess with him.
2007-02-21 01:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by forealztho69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say I wouldn't but I have never been in that situation.I think you are probably causing yourself more pain by being w/ him them watching him go back to his woman.Your best bet is to move on,time and distance from him will eventually get you over him!!I know that it's easier said than done tho!!
2007-02-21 01:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously he might still have feelings for you! What the hell is he doing still sleeping with you if he is already is engaged? You might have something the other one does not have. Let him know how you really feel and take it from there.
2007-02-21 01:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by florecitarivera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still single, then it's ok but since he is already engaged, I think you should stop. Get over him and you'll find another.
2007-02-21 01:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't belong to you anymore. You should be glad also, since he is a cheater. Trust me, if he cheats with you, he would cheat on you also. I feel sorry for his fiancee.
2007-02-21 01:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in your condition too
but my xbf not in engange, but he had two gf now
2007-02-21 03:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by nita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him alone, he will probably try to drag you into his marriage keeping you on the side.
2007-02-21 01:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋