ok i m in a long distance realtionship and i think i have handled it well, till now one thing (which pple in long distnce realtionship will agree ) is pateinece but now at the crucial time i m losing it, now we plan to get married in august, but it mite get postponed to october or may b december, why do i find it so difficult wen i think it may b october, i want it august means august, it disturbs me like hell wen i think october, seems so far, i really cant handle it and things mite get postponed to december for reasons beyond his control or my control(visa issues), me keeping very myself, bz, but just cant hanlde it, any golden words?????
2007-02-20 17:29:11 · 5 answers · asked by ria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok in simple though me and my bf p[lan to get married soon, but it mite get postponed for few months and i m not able to handle thsi gap any more, how to handle it???
got it now???
2007-02-20 17:33:44 · update #1
I too was in a long distance relationship. It was very hard and I cried myself to sleep many times because I missed him and wanted him so much. I know this sounds clique, but it truly is worth the wait. Talk to them on the phone everynight, write love letters or poems, write in a journal. Believe me, time will fly and before you know it, you will be together. I've been married to my husband for 8 years now and it was worth all the lonely nights cause now I get to be with him forever. It's a small price to pay. Good luck.
2007-02-20 17:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not really explain why the date could not be earlier so I would not know why it is difficult. Sweety you chose to be in a long term relationship, let your partner know your concerns and take it from there. Since you did not explain your issue that well I cannot give much advice...but I hope you get over it.
2007-02-21 01:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by ♥CJ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me now,
What is not difficult in life?
The nature of human is:
If there is cold, he needs warmth.
If there is hotness, he needs cold.
2007-02-21 01:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by The Knowledge Server 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Let it be. No big deal. Let it go if it does not work.
2007-02-21 01:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't understand this at all. Slow down and explain this scenario again and be simpler, please!
2007-02-21 01:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by SHELTIELUVER 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋