Me and this girl that I work with ahve been starting to get close. We talk alot on phone and at work and msn etc. She has come over once and we went to the movies once. We always acted like g/f and b/f, one night we were talking on msn and she asked me if i was looking for a relationship.. i said idk are u? and she said no, she was always busy with volunteering, dance and teaching dance, work and school so she had no time to date and it would be best not to date. I'm just wondering but is this just an excuse or is she actually being honest with me. were still really good friends but i really think of us as more then friends and im almost positive she does too.
2007-02-20 17:06:50 · 7 answers · asked by Josh S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it sounds to me like it is just an exuse make a move!!
and many good lucks;)
2007-02-20 17:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by jess98gum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously she said what she did for a reason. Maybe, she was unsure of your intentions, as well, or maybe it was just that. That she IS too busy for dating and relationships. I know how that goes. My entire highschool career, I never really had a real, stable relationship because basketball was my life. But, if it's there, it's there. Give her time to sort things out. If those moments you had did mean something to her, then she'll come around. At least, you'll are still good friends...don't force nothing, just let it ride. If things don't go your way, move on.
2007-02-20 17:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by bL@(kR0s3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 10:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she is being honest with you. She may look at you like more than a friend but she is also telling you that while she likes your company she may not be able to give you all the attention that a girlfriend would usually give a boyfriend.
2007-02-20 17:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by kaleasanders1027@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is so confusing? The best thing you can do for yourself is to continue to be "friends" with her. Most of all, please, do not pressure her into something she clearly explained to you, that she has no time for.
2007-02-20 17:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she totally wants you, but doesn't want to admit it to you because she doesn't want to feel desperate. You need to take charge my man and show her what you want and what you are willing to do to get it. Man up and show her that you wear the pants.
2007-02-20 17:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by ASK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could help u but i'm afraid i cant. the only advice i have i just to talk to her. thats the only thing u can.
2007-02-20 17:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by iranian gurl and proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋