We met coincedently 5 month ago . We were attracted to each other so we left with msn. We started a long distance relationship after 1 month. Chat through internet, phone all night long. Things got heated up so fast that he decided to visit me for 2 months when we got to know each other better, we fell in love and we even talked about marriage. Now he's back home but suddenly i found his blog which he never told me. At that moment, all my trust collapsed. Because he made up a whole different story about his love life for last 2 years when he lived alone with 2 cats without relationship. But from his blog, his ex just left their house 1 month before we met. He lied about her everytime she called when we were together. He explained he lied because he like me a lot that he doesn't want to give a messege of finding a girl to fill the gap, And now he still doesn't tell his ex about me tho they have talked on phone sometimes. Why did he lie about that? he seems love me so much but why!!
2007-02-20 17:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why he lies to you. I wouldn't trust him though. You never know what else he could be hiding. You can't have a relationship without trust. He's already lying, how can you ever trust him? Will you always wonder what else he might be keeping from you? Cut him out of your life now before you fall any deeper for him. It might hurt now, but just think how bad it would hurt the longer you wait.
2007-02-20 17:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Missy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a selfish prick, and self-centered a** hole. He's in-secured and still very much was on the rebound. Men, they always want to fish around. Shake him off and move on, you will fall in love again. It's better said than done, learn to love yourself enough not to let jerks like this one smooth talk you into doing the wild thing & then have a skeleton pop out of the closet...Men have more junk in their lives it's unbeleiavable, they are pigs! MOST MEN, 98%...
2007-02-21 01:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by HOPE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either;
1)there still close friends after breaking up
2)hes cheating on her with you
3) really likes you, but is too afraid to leave her for sum reason i dont quite know about
4)she could be a couzin or a close friend from years before
otherwise i have no idea = /
2007-02-21 01:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by c my b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR RIGHT MAYBE HE DOES LOVE U AND WHEN HE BROKE UP WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND HE MET U AND FELL IN LOVE BUT IF HE TOLD U ABOUT HIS XGIRLFRIEND YOU WOULD NT LIKE THAT I'M SURE U WOULD NT SO HE DID NT TELL U CAUSE THAT WOULD RUIN THINGS FOR YOU GUYS
2007-02-21 01:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me it sounds like yet another cheat or he is just using you im sorry much! i say break up and try really hard to move on but u deserive better than that!
good luck ;)
2007-02-21 01:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by jess98gum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to fess up and grow up. Slow down...take your time...make sure you've found out all you need to about him.
2007-02-21 01:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is confused about love or love confused him.
2007-02-21 01:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probly thought that women aren't people and it's okay to lie to them.
2007-02-21 01:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lust only last 3 year love last longer so it,s easy he don,t respect you.
2007-02-21 01:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋