I am in love wid a guy. I haven't told him yet. He also feels in the same way as I do, but has not told yet. He tries to talk wid me, smiles at me, spends time wid me........its lovely.
But the problem is dat, I hav a frn (not so gud), she also likes him. She tries to talk wid him and also sings songs for him infront of me. I feel very bad abt dis . Ofcourse she doesn't know abt it. BUt still I don't like it and I can't even say dis to her, coz of some problems. What shud I do? PLs help!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 16:35:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do you know he feels the same way?
2007-02-20 16:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh this is a tough one. The age old choosing between a man and a friend. The best you can hope for Is that even though you guys both feel the same way about him Is if he cares more for you then you need to let your friend know. Yes she might get mad and not want to talk to you ever again but If that is the case then you dont need her as a friend. She will come around and soon she will see that you guys really like each other. Just hope that the love you feel for him Is strong enough to withstand losing someone that Is a friend. Good luck
2007-02-21 00:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave it with the guy. If he really likes you and your friend comes on too strong he'll set her straight. If he doesn't then it obviously didn't mean enough to him and you should let it be. You can't force a relationship .... just let nature take it's course and see what happens. In the meantime just continue on in the same way it has been. Be yourself and enjoy the time you spend together. After all .... If you can't be his friend you don't have much to build a relationship on .
Good Luck to you !! : )
2007-02-21 00:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Messy if your Indian then please watch Shah Rukh Khan's movie Mohabbatien, Chalte Chalte. It will give you better idea to express you feeling to your boyfriend and to your lady friend.
For god says don't write short words. It is meaning less and difficult to understand. You are matured don't try short cut to get your love and your answer with wrong feeling and wrong spelling.
Best of Luck.
2007-02-21 01:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't get mad at her for approaching a guy that you like but are afraid to approach.You also can't get mad at her because she has no knowledge of your intentions with this guy.Now if you really are interested in this guy you need to take action before you loose in on action(dating)with him .Let lose that burst of confidence that's inside waiting to be released.
2007-02-21 00:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by TRUTH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the guy likes you, and you know it, then y ar you so insecure?
She's just trying to flirt with him and wants to grab hold of him. But the fact that he likes to stay with YOU answers all your questions. Just try and talk to him and let him know about your feelings and ask him about his before its too late and he develops feelings towards your 'friend' and starts to like her.
2007-02-21 00:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by kchl_dk007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of telling her first talk to him straight way.If you tell her first she might craete some misunderstandingd in two of you.And remember do not wait to express your emotions.At the most he will say no......
2007-02-21 01:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
inform your another good friend everything, and ask her to talk usually with that girl, she should say these words "what a lucky girl is she ( your name) ? hopefully she asks y then your friend need to say that u both love each other . thats all , how was that? did it help u? i will hope so ..........
2007-02-21 04:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by anand k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and the guy need to tell your friend before you start a relationship if you start dating him behind her back she will feel betrayed
2007-02-21 00:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a true friend, i thk you can be open with her...thats no way to hide true feelings, better to tell her than she finds out herself thinking that you are deceiving her
2007-02-21 00:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by puzzlesw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur love to the guy
he will do the same
and the other girl let u ;)
2007-02-21 03:03:51 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋