I have been seeing this man for 6months now .We get together for a week or so and one of brakes it off but not for long .This last time i told him i cant keep doing this my heart is really am hurting he know i love him and he tells me he loves me but he also tells me he cant commitment to any woman !! He likes being around me and we have fun together and no its not all sex .I like talking or texing him and he tells me he feels pushed when i do this he cant tex or talk ever day .I know he is not use to haveing a woman in his life its been 6 years for him. .I dont want to lose him but when we have a good weekend together or day i feel he is pulling away and i want to run to him ! Why dose he keep doing this push and pull thing .The thing with commitment is really mixing me up because at one time he told me i could be the one for him but he told me he sucked at relationships and he feels dead in side some times .
2007-02-20 16:29:38 · 4 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys tend to push and pull naturally.
You have been with him just 6 months. Give him a couple of years to get to know you.
2007-02-20 16:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard and it hurts...
You love someone, but you are not getting the same amount of love back... well... love brings pain, no matter what, so be glad love grew in you.
let me ask you this:
do you truly know his past?
- because the past makes us who we are today...
do you truly think it is worth all this pain?
- if you were willing to fall in love, then expect pain... its hard, but that is what love brings... not just joy, but also pain.
sometimes we get so confused, we don't even know what we want and when we go past some events that are similar to the past, we start running and avoiding, because we are afraid... but time will wake us up one day and give us the strength to face them...
everything takes time, every step takes effort, but are we the willing ones to take that step?
know that, each and every single thing we do, we learn and with each stepping stone, each pit, each mountain and each deep blue sea we get past, we become a better person... but they all take time...
so let time guide you my friend, patients is hard to maintain, but if you think it's worth it, then go for it...
Take care and good luck girl.
2007-02-21 00:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to keep things simple, you only been with this
guy for 6 months, so dont seem so clingy,that will cause him to
leave it along just take some time to get to know each other, then\may he will start to see things diffently.
2007-02-21 00:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ, you are only a sex outlet for him...
Get a clue...
Really!!!
2007-02-21 00:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by huskiesrule_godawgs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋