I am in a text relationship with some one we have really strong feelings for each other. I have never felt so much for someone who i never met it is incredible. The feelings are the same on both sides...we both express love for another 3 Days ago she told me she is going away to the middle east (she is going short term) she was sad and i was sad....In our relationship she has done a bunch of things wrong that hurt me and i forgave her... tonight after having a really bad day and being sad that she is leaving i had a passing fear that i shared...which was " i feel like you are saying goodbye forever."
and i didnt mean for her to take it personally just maybe wanted her to squash it. She took it really personally and got hurt and wont respond to any of my messages i asked her to forgive me and i apologized asked her to talk she hasnt respneded this was almost 3 hours ago i dont know what to do i am hurting so!
2007-02-20 16:28:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is leaving for the Middle East Tom Morning at 5:00 AM in 5 hours
2007-02-20 16:43:09 · update #1
This is NOT a relationship, sorry.
2007-02-20 16:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first things first. You've obviously been chatting with her for awhile since you both expressed love towards one another. So she's probably very familar with you. If she's going off to the middle east you should first of all tell her that you didn't mean what you said in the way that she took it. Make sure she knows it was a misunderstanding. Secondly to boost the status of the relationship try talking to her over the phone. This is gonna create more of a bond. Good Luck.
2007-02-21 00:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by superkbiggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is hurting to. She Is probably afraid of the same thing. You care for her If you have forgiven her for upsetting you in the past so now Is the time for her to forgive you. And Im not going to say If she doesnt contact you that you are better off Is the best answer because It isnt. Just give her time and let her know you still love her She will come around eventually.
2007-02-21 00:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know three hours seems long to you, but in general it's not very long. she might be busy or something, especially given that she will be going out of the country soon. give her a day or two, or you'll come off as clingy. even if she is upset, give her some space.
edit: you said she's leaving tomorrow. will you still be able to communicate via text/email from time to time? if not, do you know when she will be back? if you are reasonably sure that her trip isn't just a way of rejecting you, then you should have more faith.
2007-02-21 00:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just wait it out. If she has done so many wrong things to you why waste your time. How did you meet this person? Why can't you meet others the same way. There are so many people out there that are looking for someone like you who will treat you like a god. Also think about it maybe this was just a line to use to break up. Believe me I have heard "B.S." break up lines before and have used them myself. Sad but true. Good Luck. I hope you find someone to love you that's not over the net dating.
2007-02-21 00:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by jasonjgrimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably she never thought that you text it to her. probably too she has strong feelings and would like to keep the relationship and feel that you are giving up on her. give her some time to cool-off before you text her again. tell how you feel and the reason why you answer that way. i hope it will be fix... good luck..
2007-02-21 00:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by xyne_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to hear this, but sleep on it. Both of you have a lot of emotions and thoughts flying through your minds. It's overwelming on both of you. Give her time and when she is ready she will talk.
~~~~~~~~~~Why the heck is she going to the middle east??
2007-02-21 00:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww thats so said but it only been a few hours and im sure u know how relationships can b but it she wont listen then make here b4 it b to late
2007-02-21 00:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...maybe she just needs space, tell her you love her and that she rocks your socks. say goodnight for now and try again later. she can't be upset at you forever and if she is then it just wasn't meant to be and you have to let go. but im sure she just misunderstood you and will be fine tomarow.
2007-02-21 00:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by darkness_covered_in_light 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A text relationship???...come on now...what happened to real life??
2007-02-21 00:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋