i know that women in the america prefer men who are circumcise because is cleaner, healthier and it also makes it impossible to catch an std and it will also improve my sex life. i am afraid to start dating for the fact that a girl might not want to be with me because i am not circumcise. i am starting to become obsess with this issue that i already made some arrangement to get a circumcision. i also feel so unique because most men are circumcise and i'm not. i also blame my parents for not getting me circumcised. i am a very clean person, i dont have any health problems. most people think that circumcision is the best choice.
i even thought about suicide. i am so self-conscious and insecure
about myself.
any suggestions or comments
2007-02-20 16:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by NYC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well go get yourself cut then stupid!
Then you can quit grumbling about your parents being considerate enough to leave that decision up to you. I wish I had that choice, mine was taken from me when I was a boy.
85% of the males on earth are not mutilated, they have very good sex lives, they have no trouble getting sex partners. This crap is all in your head.
Don't blame your parents and the fact that you are not circumcised for your problems. If you were circumcised you would just find something else, or maybe the fact that you are circumcised, to be depressed about.
So you are a depressed guy that isn't circumcised; go get mutilated then you will be a depressed guy with a willie that has about as much sensitivity as your elbow. Which do you think is worse?
2007-02-22 15:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by cut50yearsago 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you need to lighten up on the circumcision, its not the end of the world if you aren't cut, you just happen to have a little extra skin attached to yours, it doesn't make it work any different, it just appears a bit different.
There are probably more men out there that are not cut, than you probably realize. I'm sitting here typing this, and I know a whole family that I am married into, for some odd reason none of them were cut. They are all happily married men. And...my youngest son isn't cut, because they couldn't do it when he was little....he was crooked...LOL
But, I do happen to have a Bro-in-law that had it done, for health reasons, (he is a diabetic, too high of a sugar level causes yeast infections more often if your not cut) He was curcumsized a couple of years ago, and trust me..he said he'd wished he'd not had it done...
So...learn to live with it, a women that judges you by your penis, isn't worth having a relationship with anyways....
And btw, std's are very real for men whether your cut or not.....
2007-02-20 16:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you're thinking too much about the difference. It's just a penis, it's not a big deal.
You should be thinking about the fun you should be having with it when having sex with beautiful women. That should be your priority.
By the way, you can still get STD's if you're uncircumsized. Condoms still exist in America for that reason.
If you have no problems with it, you keep it clean, and you find it pleasureable then keep your "man hood" if you will...
Stick to your guns and don't let pop culture get to you. In actuallity, you are the majority in this world not the minority. So don't worry about it. Besides, I heard that girls who prefer uncut men like yourself can do certain sexual things with it, that cut men can't experience. I've also heard that the sex feels better for uncut men.
So keep your chin up and don't worry about.
Trust me, I'm a health professional.
2007-02-20 16:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
getting circumcised doesn't make it impossible to catch an STD.. you still can get em... with or without a bit of skin on your dick. You will be prone to sensitivity and infection after you get cut if you do... Don't do it if you are clean and arent having any problems... Just keep yourself clean and don't worry about what you think people in america want your dick to look like.
It doesn't make your sex life any better either... thats up to you!
2007-02-20 16:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
hell no, natural is the best way! I'm uncut like you and i wouldn't cut my dick for any woman. If she doesn't like it the she can get lost. A girl you are gonna have sex with should love you and it shouldn't matter to her.
Just keep it clean and there's no disadvantage.
A big advantage to being uncut is you dick stays sensitive for a long time into your life. Circumcised guys lose the pleasure feeling there when they get older because it rubs against your underwear.
Don't cut it dude!
2007-02-20 16:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by Overkill 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls like a circumcised man I dont U just have to do what makes you happy
2007-02-20 16:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not true at all...more and more are not getting circumcised. As for not getting STD's if your cut....that's BS. Women like what they like...some like uncut....some like cut. Me...I'm cut....wish I weren't...heard sex is better for the guy when uncut. Don't sweat it. See a shrink if you need to but it's really not that big of deal.
2007-02-20 16:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the girls. It's no skin off there.. eh.. nose if you are circumcised or not.
2007-02-20 16:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by barnowl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋