why do a lot of you act so conceited. a lot of cute guys that i come across act as if every girl wants them. why is that??? plus, when ya'll go out with someone, the girl is usually not that pretty. why??? this cute guy I knew once said that he goes for ugly girls b/c they have low self-esteem and he gets whatever he wants from them. is this true???
2007-02-20 16:15:09 · 18 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a brother who does that. He picks out girls that are not really good looking, but not really ugly. Or he picks fat girls. I'm not like that. I like pretty girls who have a great personality and fell really good about themselves. If a girl has low self esteem, I would just try to help her or leave her alone. I think that guys who go after the girls with low self esteem, are trying to take advantage of that girl. That is mostly the reason why girls get raped and sometimes killed. Well that is my opinion. Sometimes I don't understand it either. Girls with low self esteem will go out with any guy, not because she likes him, but because she thinks he likes her, that is taking advantage of that girl, then the guy will dump her when he is finished with her, and he will find someone else.I dont like guys who do that. I am the kind of guy who looks for girls that are good looking then i try to get to know them first, if they like who they are and have a high self esteem, I like them, otherwise, no. I would never take advantage of a girl, NEVER! Just my opinion.
2007-02-21 02:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by fish6776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some of the ruder, irresponsible guys, sure. But you're being completely stereotypical- perhaps jealous that the 'ugly' girls get all our attention. Not all of us are so conceited- how many cute guys have you seen actually going around being egotistical? Perhaps 4 or 5. That's *not* everyone, I'm sorry. And why does it matter? Not all cute guys have wonderful personalities, and 'cuteness' fades, quickly over the years. You're better off sticking with personality- they'll like you for who you are no matter what.
2007-02-20 16:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We act cocky cause we know that the ladies love it! At least they love the false confidence anyways.
Date ugly girls? I don't know what you're talking about. I only date models.
In all honesty, to me it doesn't matter if the girl isn't that pretty. If I enjoy her company, I like her personality, and have fun with her, then that's all that matters to me.
But I know what you're talking about. My fellow playas will date anything that moves. In their eyes, it's better to be with someone then to go into a dry spell, no matter what the girl looks like.
Persuer vs. the persuee:
If a guy is good looking. It's easier for him to hook up with a very unattractive girl who has low self-esteem. The girls become the persuee. I know girls are getting their hearts broken. I've seen it. It's a cruel world out there.
Good luck.
2007-02-20 17:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well even ugly guys are conceited too.
And to all guys, having a girlfriend gaurantees a definite way to get *ss.
Cute guys do go for cute girls.
The ones who do go for ugly girls probably just do it to make themselves feel better that they could always do better, as if they are doing a "favor" for the girl. Or like your friend said, to get anything they want from them.
Or perhaps they just like ugly girls? Or ugly girls are the only girls which give them attention?
I hope that helped =)
2007-02-20 16:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not only a very good looking 18 year old guy, but i happen to be rich and have a great personality. Take it from me, I get beautiful women all the time... an average girl that is willing to let me do anything to her, anytime and whenever and whatever i want to her is nice for a change. I feel like i am the master and she wants to serve me. Plus any girl looks 10x better on her knees with her mouth open. yuuuuuuuppp!!
2007-02-20 16:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by puathe180man 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most of your answers are in your questions. For guys its a game to show off that he can not let him self fall head over heals over 'you' as he has plents of g/f out there. Even though it may not be true he ends up loosing the girl he is with and goes out with the ugly one.
2007-02-20 16:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by sam_ar1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My rule--which I stress very much everytime my pals pore themselves over magazines of appealing human beings---is that this: "he isn't warm till he's 21, he's lovable. yet even then, he remains lovable." i detect lovable a extra desirable term form a male's popularity, i do no longer understand why. A boy with some muscle like abs is high quality, yet too lots muscle is basically...God. i do no longer choose for him to break me in 0.5 whilst he hugs me!
2016-10-02 11:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true. Not-so-cute girls usually sucumb to cute guys easier than the babes.
2007-02-20 16:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by barrabas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most guys act like that because thats just how we are...
but some arent brave enough to ask out pretty girls so they go for the "easy win" so to say
2007-02-20 16:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by prsopect-wrestler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys just want girls with nice bodies. you r a black girl and probably have a nice body so u shouldnt be having any real guy problems. usually us flat butt white girls are the ones who struggle with keeping are men turned on
2007-02-20 17:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by mariabianchi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋