2007-02-20 16:13:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
geez what is it with these married men? they all come up with the same lame story.
he is married, that means he is off limits! you need to set your sights elsewhere girl.
you have no right to even look at a married man, so don't tell me you cant help who you fall in love with - you can.
why do none of you gals realize that if these so-called men are so unhappy at home they would leave?
they all have some lame excuse as to why they can't leave their wives even though they haven't had feelings for each other for years...blah ....blah... blah.
all these fellas want is a little something on the side, a little excitement, a little bragging material for the boys and they dont care who they hurt, or embarass, or shame including you, their wives, their children, their family, their circle of friends, co-workers, no one.
their only concern is satisfying their ego and their penis! god! grow up and smarten up!
but just for the sake of argument........say i am wrong and he does leave his wife, his children, for you. are you going to be happy with someone who must first allocate a good portion of his paycheck to the first family?
are you going to be happy having to work to help support his children?
and perhaps not have children of your own because you can't afford it and he just cant see starting another family - cause after all he already has kids and arent' you selfish for insisting you'd like to have kids too?
and last, but certainly not least, will you ever trust him?
no, really, will you be able to trust him?
everytime he works late, or goes out 'with the guys' will be have absolute faith that that is what he is doing?
everytime he is a half hour late getting home will you wonder who he is with?
whenever theres a phone call that he 'will take in the other room' will you wonder who he is talking to?
is that the kind of life you envision for yourself? and when he tells you it wont be like that for the two of you - are you seriously telling us that you will believe him? drop him girl! and get on with your life without destroying someone else's.
good luck
2007-02-20 18:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is against the bible, my best friend found out that her husband was cheating on her by the fact that when she was supposed to be gone on a trip, and the planes got delayed, she went home to find him sleeping with another. I would conciencly think about what you are doing, and if you really love him, have him get a divorce, then it is not a sin.
2007-02-20 16:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Rascal_Flatts_Fanatic! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved in this situation. If he's cheating, he is a dishonest guy. He may say he is not attracted to his wife, but he could be lying. Do yourself a favor and find someone who is single. You do not want to deal with his baggage and have his problems become yours.
Get involved with him once he has signed divorce papers in his hands!!! Don't be the other women.
2007-02-20 16:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Married men are off limits and will only cause you more pain and heartbreak. My friend got involved with a married man and she is so reckless. Just think, if they can do that to their wives imagine what they're capable of doing to you.
2007-02-20 16:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kim H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go find someone who is not married, or his wife could charge you with alienating his affections, and she would probably win. If she took you to court she would win, you would have to pay everything. Her lawyer, your lawyer, and court costs. Back out and back away.
2007-02-20 16:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Step away before you become "the other woman".
2007-02-20 17:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by diva_m3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can this be...he is married, do you have no respect for marriage..
2007-02-20 16:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋