ok i met this guys on the internet and he wants me to drive 2 hrs to meet him saturday but he wants to hve sex and im not going to drive all that way for that. What if he calls me he imed me tonight but i spamed him what if he calls alot what should i do i dont want to talk to him. Is there a guy for me on the internet or maybe at my college do i have a better shot for a guy at my school then on the computer
2007-02-20 16:11:48 · 19 answers · asked by Hayley H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guys sounds like bad news! You should not drive two hours to have sex with him. You should not have any sort of sex with anyone the first time you meet in person. I think he sounds creepy. If you don't want to talk to him anymore, don't. just ignore him.
Its hard to meet guys -- I know! But I'd just try to get out more around your own school. Go to whatever events you can and try to talk to people whenever you can. Start by just saying hi or hey or even just making eye contact and smiling. You'll meet someone!
2007-02-20 16:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance dating sucks, even if you do find the right person. However, almost all popular IMs have an 'ignore' button. If he's that much of a sleaze and you don't like it, you don't have to put up with it.
I'd recommend getting out more, though -- I used to think that online was a decent place to look for potential relationships, but the more involved I am in what's going on around me, the less appealing that option is, and the more flaws in it I see. So, stick with your college for guys. The good ones don't go looking for girls on the internet anyway.
2007-02-21 00:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by JDB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the guy at college. I mean the guy on the internet could be anyone. Do you really know that he is your age and everything? He doesnt sound very nice anyways.He sounds like he just wants a hookup with some girl he doesnt even know. If you ignore the guys calls and ims than eventually he will get the point and will leave you alone.
2007-02-21 00:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by thefirehot1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should go and visit this scum bag if he just wants to use you for sex. You never know what this guy can do to you. So don't do it. Yes, you probably have a better shot in meeting some other fellow at school rather than meeting someone on the computer that you can't even see or know.
One thing too, don't give up your body to someone who just wants sex, that's the only thing they would want from you. You should have more respect for yourself and your body.
2007-02-21 00:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, no, no, what are you doing? Do not meet anybody on the net. You might wind up in a ditch somewhere with your throat cut or something. There are alot of spooks out there. If he won't stop calling, change your phone number. Oh, man! You didn't give him your address did you? If you are uncomfortable about it, go to the police and tell them about it. Don't be afraid, they know how to handle things like this, and there is nothing they haven't heard. Good luck!!
2007-02-21 00:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by cprucka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eerrrr.. Duhhh!!!!!!...
Try someone at your school darling!, not a 2 hour drive to a horny man, and god only knows what he may do to you!.... That is just plain crazy!!!.... if you'd like to see just how many Cookes! there are in this world!, here, go Here!, instead!:
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http://www.unsolved.com/home.html
.... Alot of those guys on the internet are Completely Wacked!, It's easier for a girl to meet someone, than it Ever will for a guy, so alot of those guys on there tend to be at their lowest driving point, crazy, horny, assholes, lunatics, or have a Major problem(S) and are looking for someone to Itch it!.... You wanna still go to do that?....
NOTTTTTT SUCH A FABULOUS IDEA! .......... AT ALL! ...........
2007-02-21 00:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very good that common sense has prevailed do not follow through on that under any circumstance. Pls read up safety tips for online dating and always keep a friend in the loop if you have this sudden flight....
2007-02-21 00:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by sam_ar1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can tell you anything they want to over the internet or in a letter. They can hide things. You can never MEET anyone over the internet it is not safe. It is best to get to know someone close to you that you can truely get to know good and bad
2007-02-21 00:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a jerk. if you just met this guy i wouldn't do it. Not only will it hurt your heart but it can be dangerous. I would just ignore his calls and hopefully u didnt tell him to much about yourself. I know its tough being single but you know you have to put yourself first and hope for the best. Good luck in college! :)
2007-02-21 00:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by jjjj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't trust him, change your number if you have 2, stay away from him and don't let him get near you...that sounds a bit dangerous.
you can find good guys on the internet as well as you school just the same as you can find bad ones.
2007-02-21 00:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by puffy2step 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋