ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 7 months! And i love him with all my heart no one has ever made me happier! about a month ago i moved to jersey (the purpose of movin to jersey was so i can stay with my cousin and start savin up so me n my bf can get an apartment) and my bf would not be home for like 3 days at a time... well now he hasnt been home for over a week the last time i talked to him was 2-11 when ever i call his house he isnt home but he occasionally signs onto myspace now we both happened to be on myspace at the same time on valentines day but he didnt even send me a message (i sent him one) and yesterday (2-19) was our anniversary and he wasnt home. its been over a week and he hasnt called me or sent me anythin on myspace now 2 days ago he was on aim and when i messaged him to see where he has been he said "WOW FINALLY" (like im the one who has been missin) then he said he has been workin n signed off.... what should i do about him?? i need advice bad
2007-02-20 16:06:14 · 6 answers · asked by MeG PiE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is there to do? Move on...
Too many people rely on computers to be the relationship part of the relationship, or cell phones to text message.
Pick up the phone and call him, then you should be able to tell whats he's thinking by doing something people forget to do..."ASK?"
BTW, it would help if you used periods where needed, and learned to write correctly....lol
2007-02-20 16:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You just explained one of my relationships I had in the past. I was with a guy for 8 months and even though I didn't move or anything we were distant. Distance in a relationship is a sign that something is wrong. If he isn't making the time for you than maybe that's his way of saying "hey i need some space." I suggest you tell him how you feel. If you end up breaking up for awhile he might realizes how much he misses you and will want to cherish you and make more time for you. If you break up and dont get back together (like my situation) than know there are other guys out there and you can fall in love again.Hope I helped.
2007-02-21 00:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by thefirehot1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agre with everyone that u should just break up with him it sounds like to me that he doesnt want to make it work out between u two now that u have moved and thats sad to hear i have a boyfriend that loves 334miles from me and we have been together a year and 12 months now and we talk everynight and see each other when ever he can affort to come down here or wheni can make it up there and its hard but we get through it but it sounds like ur boyfriend cnat deal with the disance between u too now and he just wants to end it and in his mind its over but u or him need to make it 2 where u guys rnt dating anymore and move on with ur lives its hard to move on and break up with someone i know i had a hard time trying to move on with my life when my ex boyfriend broke up with me but then i found the guy im with today 6 months fter me and my ex broke up and we have been broke up we have been broke up 2 an half years now and im glad i moved on with my life it wasnt easy at first but its easier as u go
2007-02-21 00:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Case and point: Long distance relationships don't work out.
Dump him, he's basically forgotten about you and the relationship. Out of sight, out of mind. MOVE ON!!
2007-02-21 00:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has ended the relationship in his mind, you need to make it offical. Long distance is hard and he doesn't seem to be really into making it work.
2007-02-21 00:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who wants to read all that crap you wrote. I can tell you are typical, you probably complain and bi*ch all the time.
2007-02-21 00:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM. Sounds like he's kinda replaced you with a regular booty call closer to him.
2007-02-21 00:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋