OK so this is whats up......are guys more actracted to good gorgeous girls who dont party hardy and are more resurved.............or "hot" bad girls who run around and are abnoxious?
It seems like were im from nebraska all the guys flock for the bad girls WHATS going on?......im in no way tring to chang the person that i am...... but just tring to understand why the "bad" girls are so appealing??????
2007-02-20 16:03:58 · 10 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the type of guy and where he's "at" in his personal growth. Bad girls are attractive because the sex is easier or misbehaving is acceptable around them. Just general bawdy behavior. There are no strings attached and no committments.
However, a lot of "bad girls" get pregnant and either use the pregnancy to "corral" a guy or end up having to raise the child alone or have an abortion.
I used to like the same types up to my mid 20's, then narrowed my "type" down to more responsible women. The bad one's have too much chaos surrounding them, are extremely selfish, and absolutely cannot be trusted. But that's my experience based on my choices of women.
I respect that you don't wish to change. It shows a healthy sense of self-esteem. Many bad girls don't have that and are using their sexuality to garner attention to fill the vacancy that a lack of self-esteem leaves. As for the guys, I'm sure that many are out to prove to themselves that they are "men" but too many have yet to transition from "boy" and the result is a lot of painful, yet unneccessary choices and feelings.
2007-02-20 16:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? If a girl has the right personality (which includes not partying hardy), *and* is gorgeous, I'd be all over her. Figuratively speaking. But, to ask 'are guys' as a whole more attracted to one or the other is not really the question. Males are people, too. We have varying tastes and interests, and some guys prefer the partying girls, other don't.
2007-02-21 00:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by JDB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason guys like the bad girls is the same reason most men pick the lower apple off the tree rather than to climb all the way up the apple tree to pick the good ones.
Why? Because most men are scared to fall.
2007-02-21 00:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, we like girls who are willing to have fun, and for girls we don't want a relationship with, the ones who drink. Just show some guys that you can have fun without being abnoxious and you will be loved. You don't have to be a partier to have fun.
2007-02-21 00:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by heavy_cow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants a tramp for a short jump in the sac then dump em for someone who we can take home to meet the family. When it comes right down to it sluts, bad girls etc... are fun for a fling but nothing more serious than easy sex.
How's that......an honest male!
2007-02-21 00:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "bad" boys that you prefer do indeed prefer the bad girls. Perhaps you should give a thought to the "nice guys" who are clearly interested in you that normally reject.
2007-02-21 00:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My whole life I've been trying to figure out why the bad girls are so appealing, I think it lends to the fact of if your bad your going to have excitement, I myself would tend to steer clear of the ones like that and find someone like you instead.
2007-02-21 00:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the same appeal the bad boys and the cute guys have on all girls no matter how bad they are treated.
2007-02-21 00:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't think of girls as being "bad", it has to do how out-going and how they flirt is what you are perceiving. We are drawn to girls who can have fun and don't play so hard to get..
2007-02-21 00:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many people surpress their inner naughtiness. so maybe they are drawn to the bad girl/boy types because they know that the person will draw their inner naughtiness out for them.
2007-02-21 00:09:56 · answer #10 · answered by eternalreverence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋