For a couple years now, I've been having feelings of attraction towards other females. How do you know what to say to a girl if you are attracted to her? Is there a place that i could go or something i could do to talk to other girls?
2007-02-20 15:27:15 · 9 answers · asked by CC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, first of all, you gotta ask yourself: Do you feel SEXUALLY attracted to other women? or You feel like you wanna have a long term relationship that could end up in marriage and all? Feeling sexually attracted to other women is normal, remember that we all have opposite sex hormones in our bodies, in a low porcentage of course, but there they are. Whenever I see a hot girl I think: "Wow, that's a gorgeous girl!" and yes, I would love to have sex with another woman, but just sex, that's it... that's called wanting to explore "forbidden" stuff... besides I'd like to feel how's it like to be with a girl, it's not something I think about 24/7 tho but if I ever get the chance to do it, I would.. and I have a boyfriend, we've been together for over 3 years now and I love him more than anything in this world and we're gonna get married and all, and he knows about my sexual attraction to girls and he's okay with it cuz he knows it's just me wanting to have that experience.... so like I said before: is it sexual attraction what you feel? or is it something more serious? if it's something more serious then you might be a lesbian, maybe you should talk to someone who knows more about this stuff so u can have a proffesional opinion, and if you're a lesbian then go for it, don't be afraid and don't u give a f*** what people say, just be yourself ;)
2007-02-20 15:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? DeSi ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking to other women on the net is always good. It's protective so to say. Create an alternate id and let yourself experience and be the "new you" you feel you are or want to be. This is good because you can be honest and not worry about judgement being passed. If later you find it's not who you want, wanted to be, you can just delete the id and go on about your life. FYI...I am in your boat, although I just use one id, frankly I don't care that people see me as confused. I think many females go through this stage(for some it's who they really are). Best of luck!
2007-02-20 15:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey CC.Good for you.There is actually a place here on yahoo(under social something or other),that has a gay community where you can speak openly and freely about your feelings.In this area,I fear people will be more judgemental because there are alot of immature people on here.Look for the "social science" bullet on the lefthand side of the computer screen and join in on the gay chat.I think you will gain much more clear and helpful advice there.Good luck.
Maybe under "society and culture".
Please ignore the rest of these rude idiots.
That's what I was afraid would happen.
PEACE
2007-02-20 15:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think you might be...please soul search and be sure before you label yourself. When you know for sure don't keep it a secret. Be proud of who you are and the one that is meant for you will surface. Look for gay/lesbian organizations in your area.
2007-02-20 15:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mid teens are always a confusing time. especially sexually. it sounds like your only curious. try talking to another girl who has kissed another girl. every school has at least one.compare feelings and see how similar they are. if you wish to try and kiss a girl, take it slowly to see if its for you. and make sure your comfortable with what your doing. if not, then stop. move slowly and enjoy your experience.
2007-02-20 15:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the internet for clubs/dating services in your area
2007-02-20 15:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rock Quarry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok say this...damnnn girl u look fine you wanna phuc? lesbian style ;) ask the slutty type tho...they'll prolly do it
2007-02-20 15:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by HOW I dO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give guys a try you may like it.
2007-02-20 15:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting, you need some penis.
2007-02-20 15:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Poster_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋