well, how can i put this he's 4yrs younger and dunno if he feels the same way. well, it's like this we're friends but we've been havin sex for two months or more but we haven't gone out. But I keep asking why he comes to me if there's other girls. But the problem is fell in love with him. just how can i b in a relationship with him.
2007-02-20 15:19:33 · 19 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well im 24 and he's 21.
2007-02-20 15:27:19 · update #1
well as long you are both over 18 it's ok . Just tell him that you are in love with him !
2007-02-20 15:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you kinda did things backwards. I don't think you should have sex with someone until you love them, (and are married to them) I kinda know how you feel though, I am in love with someone who is 3 years younger than me. A lot depends on how old you two are. Maybe he just needs to mature some more. I say give him a chance. Tell that you love him. Maybe he loves you too. Start going out with him, even if its just casual at first. I hope this helps, good luck take care.
2007-02-20 15:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason he's not dating (going out) with you. The good thing is... you are great in bed! that's a plus! so... if he is younger than you and you guys are doing it... why did you expect for him to love you? He loves your moves, your face, your caresses... you love his little noises and other details.
What is the difference? He'll have more of that somewhere else (if he's not already getting it). Best advise... Enjoy it while it lasts! There will always be more guys... and if you are that good you should have no problem getting guys to love you. The question is... are you looking for love? or great sex? You have to pick, lady! How come you are doing it and "not going out"? your choice! your started it!
If sex is already happening without going out... enjoy it at its max! and look for love somewhere else. You will find it! just don't fall in love for now. Don't love him... only love the way he f...ks you.
2007-02-20 15:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by sirlordgabriel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when you get involved in such an intimate relationship (as women and some men)you tend to fall in love but luckily its not that hard to get over a 2 month relationship.So you could just move on and eventually find someone new
2007-02-20 15:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by redbutterfly38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have sex but you cannot talk to him about your feelings for each other. One reason he might come to you if there are other girls is because he can have sex with you. It may surprise you but guys, young and old like to have sex. Have you heard the story, God gave men a brain and a penis but only enough blood to operate one at time. I suggest you save your sex until you feel a bond with a guy and can at least talk to him first.
2007-02-20 15:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if your are both over 18 and you don't have any kids that are closer to his age than yours- then okay.
Second, never waste emotional energy on anyone until you know "how" they feel about you. Otherwise, you spent time just hurting yourself. literally.
Third, If you are just sex buddies, then you should know him enough to know what type of person he is.
Honestly, I would have selected better. Never give free milk, they will never buy the cow! You have fallen into a mess of your own making. Time to stand up , clean up your act and walk on.
2007-02-20 15:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to love, age is not a factor. you know you love him, and as you just said, he comes to you when there are so many other girls... doesn't that mean something to you? He probably feels the same way as you do. and why can't you be in a relationship with him? i mean look at Demi and Ashton.. they're perfect.
2007-02-20 15:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by justanother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but... you turned into a booty call. Two months of sex, but he hasn't taken you out on a serious date... reckon he wouldn't anytime soon because he's already got the goodies without trying that hard
2007-02-20 15:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to just tell him how you feel. There's really no other way to find out, or to be in a relationship with him.
2007-02-20 15:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by LadyLindsay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over 18...no problem..
AHEM!! Sex, sex and more sex...not one date?
He's probably telling all his friends how "EASY" you are.
He may not want to be seen in public with you...he may have an actual relationship with another girl. He may be a "player".
2007-02-20 15:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋