this guy says he likes me alot maybe even loves me, but won't date me becouse i'm to "prude" for him... And i got him a watch, is that bad?
2007-02-20 15:15:58 · 11 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is desperate..you are a special person with unique values perhaps hard to find values and for him to expect for you to change YOUR "DEEP INNER CORE UNIQUE VALUES" to try to satisfy him for his inmate selfish needs is to set yourself up for more heartaches in the future. What else more can he expect from you??? and you still have nor guarantee that the relationship would still work. Do yourself a big FAVOR AND LOSE HIM...you deserve better...okay?
2007-02-20 15:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by albere64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give it to him. If he really likes you, he'll stop making up excuses and ask you out when he's ready. Then, after you've been going out a month or two, give him the watch. Yes, it does seem desperate to give it to him right now. If he likes you, he'll make sure you know it. A gift is unnecessary and inappropriate. He's making excuses not to date you so that he can maintain his distance. He's either not ready to date you or he just doesn't really want to date you. Listen to your gut feeling, your intuition.
2007-02-20 23:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....
I think you should save that watch. Only girlfriends give their guys watches, but you and him aren't even in a relationship yet
2007-02-20 23:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like he is deserving of gifts if he won't date you. Let the gal who isn't too prudish for him spend her money on him. Buy yourself something nice instead.
2007-02-20 23:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by TeddyBear121 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you got him a watch that's kindof proving you are on the "prude" side... if you just got it for no reason..
2007-02-20 23:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will use you....... and you will let him....If he loves you then he'll be with you....He doesn't love you..
2007-02-20 23:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to cool. give it time
2007-02-20 23:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..dont buy his affection.
2007-02-20 23:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really
2007-02-20 23:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really
2007-02-20 23:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋