He is a friend of my ex (which in itself is probably wrong) but I've had feelings for him for about four years, already. I told him and he said to me that he "isn't interested ina relationship" (which means what?)
That was last year. Today, we finally saw each other and right away we start to catch up. During the conversation, he emphasizes the fact that he's now single and wants to know if we can keep in contact.
As we're about to part ways, he pulls me close and gives me this (VERY long VERY intimate) type of hug then brushes his cheek against mine as if he were trying to steal a kiss.
Now, this couldn't be a mistake. I'm 5'4 and he's 6 ', it's kinda hard to make a mistake like that.
Bottom line: Should I even give it a second thought after he rejected me and thought i was only good for a f***?
He might still think that way, for all i know, and i don't want to embarrass myselfself any more than i already have by asking him. Please help! Thanx to all!
2007-02-20 14:57:43 · 7 answers · asked by p00mkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, now you make him crawl on his knees and embarrass himself just like you did...payback
2007-02-20 15:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
trust whats in Ur heart, if u think he does care for u know and has changed then go for it. But...I know its hard, still, if u can honestly say u know he hasn't changed that all he wants in sex, or anythin like that, then girl hes the one that's trippin, cuz he cant see what a good thing he has right in front of him.Dont bug out bcuz one guy u think u may have or could have loved, stop u from findin Ur 1 true love. Dont stop with him keep searchin u can do better.
2007-02-20 23:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be silly he already said u were only good for one thing dont be someones sloppy seconds.he didnt want u then he just wants to sleep with u now. be more confident in ur self trust ur insticts with this one.u make up ur own mind if u do be CAREFULL .
2007-02-20 23:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by hope 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. Normally I would say "no, don't ask him again", but it does sound like he's giving you signs (unless you're reading too much into them). If you don't really talk to him much anymore, though, what are you going to lose by asking him again?
2007-02-20 23:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Steve 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I wouldn't pursue him because in my opinion, he had his chance. He'd need to pursue the heck out of me to get me to change my mind.
2007-02-20 23:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you might as well. Nothing ventured nothing gained....just be careful.
2007-02-20 23:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he rejected you once, and you want to take him in now, I say no, no , and h***, no, he just wants in you pants
2007-02-20 23:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋