I think I may be falling OUT of love with my boyfriend. I don't want to. I really want to be with him but the thing is that there's this nagging thing in the back of my mind and I am starting to not get the same happy and in love feelings that I used to have for him. I wanna make this work and I know he's still crazy about me. We've been going out 2 1/2 months and I wanna know if there's a way to fall head over heels for him again. PLEASE HELP, I DON'T WANNA LOSE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 14:57:12 · 8 answers · asked by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, You got nothing to worry about. All thats happening is the "New-ness" of everything is just kinda rubbing off. Take for example when you got your first car or drivers liscence. Wow it was so awsome to get to drive wherever you want on you own set of wheels, but after awhile it just kinda became ... Driving...it wasn't as super special as it was, but its still cool. Or what about that Killer video game, You played it all the time... but then it became another video game, but it was still fun. The shiny coat is just peeling off. Things will still be good, and you and he will still be happy to be together, things just kinda cool down. To keep it goin for a very long time though, you gotta change your routine up. Go out to different places. staying at home or going to the same places you always do gets old. Do new things with each other AND take some time to yourselves. Thats very important. When you spend to much time with one person sometimes things get more difficult, because they just become monotonous.
2007-02-20 15:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 1/2 months is not very long in the whole spectrum of life. Go with your gut. You can't make a relationship work just by trying harder. You have to actually be in love with him. Get out and meet new people and date other boys. See what's out there. You probably don't like that answer. Is there another boy that has caught your eye? If so, then time to break it off with your boyfriend. It's not fair to him to keep him in a relationship where he's the only one, unknowingly, that is in love.
2007-02-20 15:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by JLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry there is no way to fall over heels again. If love is not there it is not there. You don't want to be in a relationship without any romance. Your best bet is to break up with him before you really hurt him.
2007-02-20 15:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a nice guy can appear to be boring because we are so used to fighting and drama in our relationships. You start to think that the drama means passion and without that fighting drama, you think there is no passion. Maybe it's just that? Otherwise, maybe you just wanted him so badly due to the chase, and once you "caught him" the thrill was gone? I have heard a lot of men say that, that it's more about the chase and it's not so exciting once they catch the girl.
2007-02-20 15:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 1/2 months is not that long. Are you sure it is love? The "butterfly" in the tommy faze is over and you are getting settled. There is not much you can do.
2007-02-20 15:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by cvhuntaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always be friends. sometimes thats better for couples. i had a guy that i loved, and for three years it was great, but one day we just lost the puppy love we had. it was lust and mushy love. if you love him unconditionally, like family thats great friendship kind of feelings. and you wouldnt be losing him. not all relationships work out the way you want, its hard and sad, but life goes on.
2007-02-20 15:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by R. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It seem you still love him! Just in your question I can tell. I would tell him how you feel! Tell him you still love him! And you want to spice up and rekindle your relationship! find something like a trip to help get closer.
2007-02-20 15:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by cattitude1970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out with himn more, Spend more time with each other or talk more to him.
2007-02-20 15:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Vi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋